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Update-Doctor's Appointment
So I went to the doctor today to get a clarification and get some questions answered. Basically here's what we got.
-The doctor agreed to term it a miscarriage based on my HCG (?) levels. My levels actually came out at 4.98 which they technically term a negative pregnancy test.
-He said that at some point I was pregnant hence my two positive pregnancy tests.
-He thinks I lost the baby sometime last week (possibly Saturday when I woke up crampy?) but actually miscarried this morning.
On a sidenote: My husband is the best person in the entire world. I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for him. He is such an amazing guy and was by my side through this entire thing. He was amazing.
We're still going to try to have a baby, but we are waiting at least one full cycle before trying again-doctor's suggestions. I know we are going to have a baby when the timing is right. It sucks right now but these things happen for a reason...as much as I hate hearing that.
Thanks for all of your comments, thoughts, and prayers. You girls are amazing and I love you all so much!
Re: Update-Doctor's Appointment
Kari I so admire your strength! It WILL happen for you, I know it will!
I can't imagine how hard this is for you two, but know that there are so many who love you and rooting for you! It will get better 
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(Should have read this post first)
I'm sorry for you and Jon. When the time is right, your body will give you the best baby there is, so keep your chin up!
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your attitude is amazing, and you are so strong to be going through this with such optimism! I'm very sorry that you are going through this, and like you said, you will get pregnant again and have a baby when the time is right
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I'm sorry you had to go through that! But since it happened, it's great that you have a wonderful husband by your side.
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I'm so sorry to hear this. As everyone has said, you do have a positive attitue, and I hope the best for you and Jon.
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Thank you girls so much. You honestly have no idea how much it means to me and Jon both!
Today is a better day then yesterday already. I slept better last night then I have since we found out. Maybe that's a sign that something wasn't right-I don't know. This weekend Jon and I are going to spend a lot of time together. We're going to go to a winery and maybe go to a baseball game or two if I'm feeling up to it. My bosses are WONDERFUL and gave me today and tomorrow off, so I can just relax and try to start feeling back to myself.
I'm still overwhelmed by how many people have shown so much love for Jon and I through this. It's an amazing feeling!
Thanks again, girls. Love you!
xoxo
So sorry
Hugs to you both.
Your spirit amazes me. I love how you and your hubby have planned some fun things to do this weekend. That's so great!
My heart is with you.
Kudos to J! So glad you have a supportive hubby.