It's over.

Re: It's over.

• Temp364615875002474

  August 2011

  jo&sam:

  All the other ladies have said everything I could possibly say. 

  I'm so sorry that you're going through this and please know that we are here for you.

  This. ((HUGS))
  

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• alliapistor

  August 2011

  I read your post this morning, but am late in responding because I didn't really know what to say.

  I'm sorry that you're going through this and I hope that things work out in the way that is best for you and your situation and you will feel comfortable posting again.

  But I also feel bad that we have created the rainbows and puppies image.  God knows there are days when I look at my DH and wonder how the hell I'm going to put up with X for the next 50 years.  Some of it is petty stuff, but some of it isn't.  We should try to be better about asking for advice in dealing with the bad along with the good.

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• mrs.dilligaf

  August 2011

  I'm sorry you have to go through this.  Just so you know, sometimes DH stands for d***head.  And honey?  It means bee vomit.  It's easy to see things going well for everyone else, but it's like when you say you're fine when your sick.  You aren't always fine, but you don't want to act like anything is wrong.  This is not a reflection on you, it is a relationship that didn't work out. 

  Please come back and post.  We're here if you need anything.

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• MrsKatieK

  August 2011

  MrsAllieH:

  Everyone has said it all. I'm so sorry that you are going through this very difficult time. Previous posters have said it and I will too - we are a group of friends, first. Best of luck as you navigate this step in your life, and please know we're all here for you.
  

  I just want to echo everyone else's statements of support and prayers.

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• rockymountaingirl member

  

  August 2011

  I am so sorry you're going through this, you are not a failure.  Just like everyone else has said, our marriages aren't perfect here, we often just don't share the bad.  I hope you feel comfortable to come back to this board when you are ready.  ((Hugs))

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• Jill420791

  August 2011

  I also just saw this post. I echo what everyone else has said no one has a perfect marriage.  Everyone has issues whether they discuss it or not. Just because we all don't put it out and we only talk about the good things doesn't mean it doesn't happen. My Dh and I have been through alot ( job loss, losing our home to forclosure) it takes work to keeps things together and make it seem like it's perfect. Hang in there! I truly believe everything happens for a reason! I wish you nothing but the best.
  

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• bbetson

  August 2011

  mrs.dilligaf:

  I'm sorry you have to go through this.  Just so you know, sometimes DH stands for d***head.  And honey?  It means bee vomit.  It's easy to see things going well for everyone else, but it's like when you say you're fine when your sick.  You aren't always fine, but you don't want to act like anything is wrong.  This is not a reflection on you, it is a relationship that didn't work out. 

  Please come back and post.  We're here if you need anything.

  I agree, please come back and lean on us if you need any support. 
  

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• TaylorNShannon

  August 2011

  I'm so so sorry to hear this. Please do come back for the support you will obviously need. (((hugs))) I agree with others who say we need to have more how to deal with the bad because it isn't puppies and rainbows here either.
  

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