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jennlin
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
frenemies
my frenemies wedding is next month.....she wore a very white dress at my wedding. should i wear my wedding gown to hers? 
anybody else have some frenemy stories?
♥ bfp2 02/15/2012 ♥ edd 10/23/2013 ♥
♥ bfp1 06/14/2011 ♥ edd 02/22/2012 ♥
♥ baby jennlin born on 02/15/2012 ♥
who says you can only wear your wedding dress once?
honeymoon bio ♥ married bio ♥ planning bio
jumped ship to the new and improved nest. back to TB for baby boards.
♥ bfp1 06/14/2011 ♥ edd 02/22/2012 ♥
♥ baby jennlin born on 02/15/2012 ♥
who says you can only wear your wedding dress once?
honeymoon bio ♥ married bio ♥ planning bio
jumped ship to the new and improved nest. back to TB for baby boards.
Re: frenemies
I never got the whole frenemies thing. Either you're a friend or an enemy, but why the catty I'll like you to your face, but not behind your back?
At the point I'm at in my life, I just don't have time or desire to deal with drama. If I like you then we're cool, but if I don't then that's cool too, but I'm not going to go out of my way for you...ever, but I will be cordial.
I have a frenemy co-worker. She also wore white to my wedding. Of course, she's an old bat who thinks her dog is her child (no offense to pet parents, I've been a pet parent too and understand how it feels - but this woman goes WAY over the top with her dog) and smells like moth balls. She is also the WORST housekeeper in the world, and I swear she's a hoarder. That, and I'm her supervisor, and yet she tries to act like she's my supervisor. Beeyotch, I don't think so.
Can you tell I don't like her much? LOL
BFP 1/22/12 | Ectopic pregnancy found 2/14/12 | Methotrexate to complete m/c 2/15/12
i wouldn't say we're enemies, i don't even dislike her...we've just been at a head to head competition since we were 5 years old. she was the only other chinese girl at my school, so my parents compared me to her our whole lives. she always had better grades than me and was the 'good' girl, and my parents wanted me to be just like her. i definitely don't hate her, it's just that we're not bff, and we only see each other for birthdays or less every year.
i feel like our friendship is pointless, since even when we see each other, we have nothing to say to each other, but we feel obligated to see each other since we're each others "first friends", and we were definitely bff throughout elementary school.
ETA: this is the girl that asked me how big my diamond was, then got engaged 2 months later with .01 carats bigger than mine. competition much?
♥ bfp1 06/14/2011 ♥ edd 02/22/2012 ♥
♥ baby jennlin born on 02/15/2012 ♥
who says you can only wear your wedding dress once?
honeymoon bio ♥ married bio ♥ planning bio
jumped ship to the new and improved nest. back to TB for baby boards.
you had me at mothballs.
♥ bfp1 06/14/2011 ♥ edd 02/22/2012 ♥
♥ baby jennlin born on 02/15/2012 ♥
who says you can only wear your wedding dress once?
honeymoon bio ♥ married bio ♥ planning bio
jumped ship to the new and improved nest. back to TB for baby boards.
this. EXACTLY.
life isn't a competition and that would get old quick. some one who always wants to one up you isn't any one i'd like to be around. i can't believe people wore white to your weddings! skanks! that is unacceptable behavior. i couldn't stand to be 'friends' or anything with that girl or anyone like them.
If I were you I would wear a white dress that had some kind of colored print, AND that showed off your new ginormous bewbies. That way, you aren't being as bad as she was.
Photo courtesy of jennygg.com
My never updated Planning/Married Bio: http://mgoss228.weebly.com/
Seattle Knotties: Please page me if you send me a PM!
TTC #2 for a million years: SA normal, CD 23 bloodwork shows nothing amiss, ovulation detected. Next step: ? maybe CD3 bloodwork to check eggs? All out of pocket, so limited IF tests/treatments.
And a side note rant, does it really matter if someone else wears white to a wedding? I mean, yeah, yeah, I get the tradition and all, but come on! Who's going to mistake someone for the bride? Omgeeeee, who's the bride?! I don't know!
TBH i've worn white to a wedding too, but i was about 13..and (obv) didn't know any better.
i've never heard of no-white at a wedding until i was on TK, and my friend wasn't engaged yet at the time, so i bet she just didn't know any better also (i was one of the "first" to get married out of our friends). i wasn't offended, i just thought it was funny that she didn't know any better (since we've always been at competition with one another...i felt "smarter"
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♥ bfp1 06/14/2011 ♥ edd 02/22/2012 ♥
♥ baby jennlin born on 02/15/2012 ♥
who says you can only wear your wedding dress once?
honeymoon bio ♥ married bio ♥ planning bio
jumped ship to the new and improved nest. back to TB for baby boards.
the one on the right i think.
♥ bfp1 06/14/2011 ♥ edd 02/22/2012 ♥
♥ baby jennlin born on 02/15/2012 ♥
who says you can only wear your wedding dress once?
honeymoon bio ♥ married bio ♥ planning bio
jumped ship to the new and improved nest. back to TB for baby boards.
The one on the right is wearing a more "pure" white, so she must be the Bride
Photo courtesy of jennygg.com
My never updated Planning/Married Bio: http://mgoss228.weebly.com/
Seattle Knotties: Please page me if you send me a PM!
Best sound ever: baby's heartbeat! (Heard @ 10w1d)
DEF wear something that shows off the bewbies and makes you look like glorious fecund goddess of childbearing!