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Re: FFFC....Go!
Agreed. That's too far. It doesn't seem to me like he doesn't want to to harm your marriage, either.
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I agree with the other gals that this is definitely inappropriate and I definitely agree with Jo, that for him to type such things he isn't too concerned about your marriage. I know you say you do this at work probably with the intent that DH would never find out about it, but I think you should also be aware that if you are using work property to have these convos that I know my company saves EVERYTHING we send even IMs and if they ever had reason to, could look at this info at ANY time. Keep that in mind. Also, if he is texting you this stuff, your DH could most definitely find it if you aren't careful and if you know your DH would be hurt if he saw it = it is inappropriate.
I'm glad you could talk to us about it even with an AE and I hope you get the outcome you desire. I know you say your marriage is great, but for you to have convos and want to feel desired by another man it seems to me that there really IS something lacking with your DH that should be examined. It is not normal in a marriage to have racy convos like this unless you and your DH are into the open marriage thing. I know this is probably a bit crazy sounding, but why don't you try to have racy convos with your DH...that might help to spice things up and help you to feel more desired.
This is exactly I what I was talking about when I said to remove the other person and put that energy towards your DH instead. The convo's you'd normally have with this other person...have them with your H. It might be just what you needed!
I am late on this but here it goes...
My SIL is PG with twins and I am very bitter about it. I know I should be happy about it but I am not. She is 40 (yes, age is not a factor) but the fact that we have been trying for so long makes me bsc.
The kicker? DH seems unphased by it. I am sure he is holding in his sadness and covering it with happiness. It sucks I can not tell him how I feel b/c guys just do not get it.
I wanted to be PG god damn it. We have a house and now I want a child of our own. I want the perfect life but clearly my SIL has the perfect life.
I am not looking forward to the holidays at all or going to her baby shower. I secretly hope that it is when I am on a work related trip or something else is planned. I do sound like a horrible SIL and I am only speaking outloud b/c I would never say this to my SIL.
Does this make me shelfish? Yes but I have a right to be. As you can tell I am angry and upset.
I don't think you're selfish. You are normal and experience emotions that I think are completely understandable considering all you have been through. Lots and lots and lots of ::Hugs:: to you.