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Need My Niners

Hey ladies, I know you are all great T&P givers, so I'm coming to you.

My mom passed away last night. I haven't really had time to process anything, a police officer came by last night around 10 and told me her roomates hadn't seen her leave her room all day. Matt and I actually stopped by yesterday around 4 because she didn't answer her phone, but her roomates knocked on the door and said she didn't answer, so I told them to tell her we stopped by. I guess when she still didn't answer leter, they checked on her and found her laying in her bed with her phone in her hands playing a card game. I think it was a seizure, she'd been in and out of the hospital a few times this year for seizures and was taking anti-anxiety meds for her super high blood pressure and I'm not sure what else.

My dad is on his way down to help Matt and I with arrangements. Her family is distant and I'm not even sure they'd be interested in having a service. I'm her only child so I have to go through everything, though she didn't have much...

With all that's happened this week, the earthquake, the hurricane, evacuating and trying to get back home, the tornado warnings last night and now this, I'm surprised I haven't started going into PTL... but I have the next 3 days off so I'm planning on taking it easy and getting my head on straight.

I'm babbling. But I thought I'd just ask for any words or thoughts from my amazing niners.

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  • I'm so sorry Em, if there's anything we can do please let me know!
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  • Let us know if you need anything at all. I know you probably have no idea where to start but take it slow and you will figure it out! We are all here for you to babble anytime... its never babbling with the niners. 

  • Oh Emily, I am so incredibly sorry to hear this. I can't imagine what you're going through right now. Please know that you're in my thoughts. Make sure to take care of yourself over the next few days and weeks and keep yourself and baby healthy and calm. Please let me know if there's anything I can do.
  • OMG Emily.... I am so, so sorry.  Thinking about you and yours, and if there's anything you need, please don't hesitate to ask... *hugs*
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  • Sweetie, I'm so sorry. Ours prayers are with you.
  • Oh my gosh. I am so so sorry. There's really nothing else to even say. My dad actually was having undiagnosed seizures too when he passed away and it was just as sudden and unexpected.

    I know how hard it is to lose a parent so fast and without any preparation and I wish I had better words than I am just so sorry for your loss. Take any help that people offer, it's just a lot to handle. Make sure you try to keep taking care of yourself and give yourself time to be away from any chaos that might be going on.

    If you need anything at all, message me on FB or here.. Again, I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking of you.

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  • oh my gosh, I'm so sorry Em.  You definitely have our thoughts and prayers.  Let us know if you need anything. 
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  • Oh Emily, I'm so sorry. I will be thinking of you and your family.
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  • I'm so sorry Em if there is anything you need you know we are here.
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  • I'm so sorry Emily. If there's anything you need, let me know. *hugs*
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  • I am so sorry. Sending hugs your way.
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  • I am so so sorry {{{hugs}}} As the others have said, if there is anything at all we can do, please let us know ! I know it's tough but try to take some time for yourself to make sure you & the babe are ok.
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  • Oh my gosh Emily, I'm so sorry. I can't even pretend to know what you're going through right now. My thoughts are with you and please do try to take it as easy as you can the next few days.
  • Omg. I'm so sorry hun:( I'll definitely be sending thoughts and prayers your way. I can't imagine dealing with all you've been through lately, and now this. Try to take it easy and keep that baby in the oven:) :hugs:
  • Oh Emily, I'm sooo soo sorry.  Sending some thoughts your way.  Remember to take care of yourself. Please let me know if I can do anything. xoxo
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  • Em,

    I'm so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I know I don't live close, but if I can do anything or send anything please let me know.

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  • Emily, I'm so sorry. We were in a similar situation when Michael's mother passed away earlier this year. He's an only child. It was very overwhelming. You'll be in my prayers. Please contact me if you need anything!
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  • So sorry to hear that Emily. :( My thoughts and prayers are with you, Matt, and your family. I can't imagine the week you've had. Take care of yourself and let us know if you need anything.
  • I am so so sorry sweetie.  You and your family will be in my T&Ps!
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  • Emily, I'm so sorry!  Lot and lots of hugs.  If you need anything, you know where to find us. :)
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  • Wow Emily, I'm so sorry! You and your family are in my prayers :(
  • Oh Emily, that is so awful.  There is nothing I can say that others haven't already said.  Take it easy, and accept help when/where you can.  I can only imagine what a week it has been for you.  Take care of yourself and your baby, your mother would not be happy if you let the stress send you into PTL.  We are always here for you for babbling or whatever else you need!
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  • Thank you so much everyone for all of your support. It really means so much to me. I truley feel all of the love you are sending and it's very much appreciated.
  • Dude, that just sucks. I'm so sorry you've had so much on your plate lately. Let us know if there's anything we can do. {{hugs}}
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  • Em, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. If you need anything at all, don't hesitate to ask.
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  • Emily, I am so sorry to hear about your mom.  That is terrible.  I wish I could help.  I lost my dad exactly 9 years ago today.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, Emily. :( I'll be thinking about you guys.

    Let me know if you ever want to talk -- I know how it feels to lose your mom unexpectedly. 

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  • I'm so, so sorry, Emily.  I can't imagine how overwhelmed you must be right now.  All of those things combined are enough to make anyone incredibly stressed out.  I know I'd probably shut down with all that on my plate, so you're already a much stronger person than I. I'm glad you have the next few days off to gather your thoughts and try to take everything in.  Try to take care of yourself and Baby B. I'll be thinking of you.
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  • Omg, I'm so sorry, sweety. If you need help with anything let me know, okay? <3
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  • I am so so sorry to hear this Emily.  You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.  
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