July 2009 Weddings
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

Can we talk Chaz Bono?

I'm having a really hard time understanding why people have their panties in a twist about him being on DWTS. All of these parents are yelling about him not being good for their kids to see on TV. Are they denying that this is somehting people live with? Do they think their kids are suddenly going to want sex changes because they see someone on TV had one?

I would think it's a great teaching moment on differences and acceptance.

And really, how often are they even going to bring it up on this show? It's a dancing show. I'm sure now that people got all upset it's going to get a bigger mention than if people just let it be.

Re: Can we talk Chaz Bono?

  • Ignorant people tend to think that being transgendered is contagious. It's the same mindset as not allowing your children to be around someone who is gay because it's a "bad influence." Ridiculous. 
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I agree with everything Kate said.

    However, if you are still uncomfortable talking about it with your kids, you could just let them think he is and always was a man.  He doesn't look at all like a girl, so I don't really think that would be an issue. 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Are young kids even going to know that he was a she? Do they even know who Cher is? Seriously, parents need to calm down and realize that kids can't be sheltered from the real world forever. Grrrrrrr.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imagekrissyrose210:
    Are young kids even going to know that he was a she? Do they even know who Cher is? Seriously, parents need to calm down and realize that kids can't be sheltered from the real world forever. Grrrrrrr.

    I totally agree with this! Whether you agree with Chaz' "decisions" (if you want to call them that) or not, your kids are going to be exposed to things like homosexuality, transsexuality (is that a word?), etc...eventually. And, frankly, if you are so offended by it, don't watch Dancing with the Stars. Nobody is programming your DVR or changing the channels on your TV without your consent.

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Ditto and Amen!!!  Parents don't think much about letting their kids watch really violent things on TV, but Chaz Bono is going to confuse them?  What is the issue with your kid being confused anyway?  Isn't that part of growing up?  You live and you learn.  Let's have them watch people killing each other because that's normal, but God forbid they learn to be tolerant of differences in human beings.  We wouldn't want that now would we?  That's just crazy talk.

  • imagekrissyrose210:
    Are young kids even going to know that he was a she? Do they even know who Cher is? Seriously, parents need to calm down and realize that kids can't be sheltered from the real world forever. Grrrrrrr.

    THIS!

  • Agreed on all points.  It's so effing ridiculous.  And really, as scantily clad as the women on the show dress, I wonder why these uber-conservative parents are letting their kids watch it at all.  Because that is actually what's more influential to young people, not the transgendered thing.

    And I want to echo that he doesn't look in any way female, so how confusing should it be? 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I can't wait for Chaz to be on the show!  I wish the rumor had been true a while back when they said that Portia was going to be on too.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards