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Anniversary dates?

This weekend is our 8th anniversary.  He is away with the kids where we got engaged, I am home alone/working.  I am trying not to harp on it, but it's making me very sad. 

I know this is the best decision for me/us however he keeps telling me I am abandoning the marriage, destroying the family etc.  I know I can only make it upsetting if I take responsibility for it and in some ways I do b/c I am the one actually deciding to leave, however it's a direct result of his acting "single with spouse" for the last 6 years. 

 

Just a horribly sucky weekend for me.

Re: Anniversary dates?

  • Wait, what? 

    Are you separated?

    Did I miss your back story?

    I'm sorry it's a sucky weekend. :( 

  • imageInterrobang:

    Wait, what? 

    Are you separated?

    Did I miss your back story?

    I'm sorry it's a sucky weekend. :( 

    What she said

    Why is he with the kids at the place you two got engaged while you're home?

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  • Yes, we are seperated.  Have been for a little over a year.  Working on getting the money together for filing the divorce papers.
  • If that's what's best for you, try not to beat yourself up.

    But I don't understand why he took the kids to the place where you two got engaged on your anniversary

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    If that's what's best for you, try not to beat yourself up.

    But I don't understand why he took the kids to the place where you two got engaged on your anniversary

    Yeah. Why is he taking the kids there?

    Sorry it's a sucky weekend. 

  • I am sorry it is such a sucky weekend.  What kind of issues are there?  The nosy part of me wants to know.  Be gentle with yourself.
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