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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: Non-clicky poll-How Long Has It Been?
"They say with time it gets better. Not true. With time you only get used to it."
My siggy (see below) was in honor of the year of the rabbit because I was really hoping I'd do her justice. Alas, I haven't had sex since early January... ::le sigh:: And the guy I was seeing at the time was absolutely terrible, so I agree that it shouldn't count.
Before that I hadn't since XH, which was a LONG time ago (Feb 2010)
So...I'm still winning?! Go me.
Off to drink my sorrows away....
If I get a pass on the "it was so bad it shouldn't count" then I think I've got you beat -- perhaps we ought to enjoy an adult beverage together. Cheers!
Well...misery loves company. So cheers!
::blows whistle::
I don't know silly.goose. You DID get some, even if it wasn't very good. And it sounds like it was multiple times so that definitely has to be counted.
I am attempting to not count my encounter in May because it was only one time, horribly bad, and he didn't *ahem* finish.
::rules in favor of redredwine.::
I had sex three times in my marriage if you don't count the honeymoon. We were married for more than three years. So yea...
Fair enough - I agree, redredwine wins. Anyone who's gone longer than 6 mos deserves a lot of booze and a BOB, tho. Mmmhmm.
2 months, and I am looking for a solution and hope to find one VERY soon. lol
Longest I have gone was 6 months and it showed. I get cranky.
No way. I definitely win....I'm at just about 3 yrs. Yup. I said years....I had a random one night stand during my separation but nothing since then. No wonder why I'm bitter.
RedRedWine- we are lonesome twinsies! So we can tie for second
I need to see what this BOB thing is I guess.
Ahem. "Battery operated boyfriend."
Awww.
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
I'm right there with you ladies... 10.5 months for me.
(Well, 10 months, 13 days... but who is counting... HA!) I know when it will happen next and by then it will be over a year.
We can have our own little pitty party I think. LOL
My boyfriend and I decided to not have sex until after marriage...so my last time was with my XH back in April and it was forced...I hated having sex with him.
Background on my boyfriend and I: We dated 10 years ago when I was 18 and he was 20...we were like bunny rabbits back then...aannnd its not like we don't do "other" things for pleasure currently
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