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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: Would you consider this cheating?
I didn't see it as cheating at first either but now I'm pissed. The anger and hurt has started to surface. At the time it was the least of our issues in the marriage but now I want to scream over it. WTF, seriously?!?! Of course it's cheating, why TF didn't I see this?! Good thing I started therapy this week
Oh I know... This news came out for me when he had already kicked me out of our home and I was in the process of losing a baby... seemed minor at the time..I had much more to worry about. I guess it was the body and mind's way of dealing with such a stressful situation. Maybe I have PTSD also ... It was incredibly scary and stressful and I lost my marriage, husband, home and baby in like 3 weeks? I have been apart from my ex for over 1.5 years though so I just can't get the energy together to get angry about it. I think a year ago it would have made me very hurt and angry but now I am just done being upset about it. Time has helped me
Hell with this logic I'm having an emotional affair with my hair stylist but a visit to a massage parlour is not cheating exactly. SMRT.
FWIW, I had a friend who was in the armed services (he had been an officer - but was out going back to school). He said a lot of the enlisted men believed that "It's not cheating if you are no longer in the US," and "It's not cheating if you pay for it!!!"
Yes, I would consider that cheating. It's basically prostitution.
No basically about it. It is prostitution.