Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
How did you find out your ex cheated?
Re: How did you find out your ex cheated?
Just google keystroke logger and download it, it stays hidden on your computer. I deleted the history after so he couldnt see what I had done. I didnt do this to just be a snoop or jelous wife, I suspected but didnt have the proof and this gave it to me within a day. It will only give you info entered on your computer though, his phone I cant help ya...
We were actually separated for two months before i even found out about the other woman. The phone bill had a lot of messging charges and calls to a certain number. But the ezpass record was what confirmed it. they had been seeing each other for about a year.
He might be telling the truth about not being able to disable it. I work in IT and my company requires a password on everyones' phones for security reasons, and they can't disable it without losing access to their email etc.
Be that as it may, I'm a firm believer in trusting your gut.
I knew something was off with my ex-boyfriend when he started getting a lot of text messages and turning away to answer them, something he'd never done before. That, the "solitary" walks, and the lack of intimacy clued me in. Finally, I looked at his phone one day while he was in the shower (I felt guilty about it, but not after I found out) and he'd been having an inappropriate relationship with a girl he helped at his work and then subsequently tracked down on Facebook. The icing on the cake was that the relationship started two weeks before we moved in together and I found out a week after we moved in - locked into a hellish one year lease neither of us could get out of.
I totally understand this!
He just has passwords on everything and doesn't even have his fb password saved on his laptop, which is passworded.
This is fishy. Why cant he give you the password?