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It's like a repeat nightmare.

J and I got a BFP over a week ago. We got into the doctor this past Friday. Everything looked great. We had another appointment next Monday.

Saturday night I started spotting. Then stopped. I called the doctor anyways and she had me get my betas taken again. 

I went from 52 to 27. 

I'm so tired of this happening I can't even put it into words. 

We're being referred to an RE to see if there is a reason behind these consecutive 6 weeks and 1 day (approx) miscarriage.


Nonetheless, we're taking some time off of TTC. I need some time to get over this. Again. 

Sorry I didn't tell you girls right away...I didn't want to get everyone's hopes up to have this happen again...

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  • NOooooooooooooooooooooooooooo?. =( I sent you so much sticky dust too!!!!!!!!! THIS SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • Oh, Kari... I'm so sorry. My heart hurts for you.

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  • big big hugs to you, hun. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this.

    Hopefully the RE will help you get some answers.

  • I'm so sorry Kari.  Hopefully the RE with get things figured out.
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  • Oh sweetie,

    I'm so sorry. :(

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  • I'm super sorry you're going through this again!  Have them check your progesterone levels.  We were close to having a miscarriage because my progesterone was super low and had to get put on immediate suppositories to bring it back up.  I'm not saying that is the real cause of your miscarriages but it could quite possibly be it.  Also, REs are wonderful people.  Just make sure you feel comfortable with them.  They make some very important decisions.  I'm here if you need to talk.  Love you girlie. 
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  • Oh Kari...my heart breaks for you.  I'm soo soo sorry.  Many many t&ps & hugs coming your way.  You'll get that little Colts fan soon. xo Right Hug
  • You already know how much my heart breaks for you. If there is anything you need at all.. you know how to reach me. xoxo
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  • Sorry, sweetie!  Lots of T&P's!
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  • I'm so, so sorry, Kari. My heart hurts to hear this. You and J are in my thoughts and prayers. Big hugs. 
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  • Kari, my heart is just breaking for you!!! (HUGS)
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  • Oh Kari, I am so incredibly sorry for you guys. I second what Laura said about having the RE check your progesterone levels, it's the first thing that comes to mind. Sending you tons of hugs and T&Ps. We're always here when and if you need to talk. XOXO
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  • That sucks =( I am so sorry to hear this.
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  • I'm so thankful you have Jon there for you to help you through this. :(  Sending love your way~you know you can call or text me whenever you need me.  xo

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  • I'm so sorry that you and Jon are going through this. Sending you lots of T&Ps that the RE is able to figure out what's going on!
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  • I am so sorry this has happened again. I hope your RE appt can give you some answers.

    Lots of hugs...

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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this again.  Hugs.
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  • imageLauraR326:
      We were close to having a miscarriage because my progesterone was super low and had to get put on immediate suppositories to bring it back up.  

    Hmm You don't get close to having a m/c. You either have one or you don't/

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  • Uhm actually you do. My progesterone dropped really low and I believe once you get below a 10 your body is proned to miscarriage.  Don't quote me on the exact number because I'm sure you will find a way, but its what my dr said. 

    Thanks for coming back to the board.  We were perfectly fine with you being gone though. 

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  • hugs! and T&Ps to you 
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  • imageLauraR326:

    Thanks for coming back to the board.  We were perfectly fine with you being gone though. 

    ummm can I just say there is no reason to be that way.. it's a public board. I'm not choosing sides here because I don't have a bone to pick with anyone, but this really bothers me when people get this way. 

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  • imageA_Farmers_Wife:

    imageLauraR326:
      We were close to having a miscarriage because my progesterone was super low and had to get put on immediate suppositories to bring it back up.  

    Hmm You don't get close to having a m/c. You either have one or you don't/

    This is most definitely NOT the post to be commenting on someone's medical issues and if you believe they are wrong. Have some compassion for Kari please. End Rant.

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    imageLauraR326:

    Thanks for coming back to the board.  We were perfectly fine with you being gone though. 

    ummm can I just say there is no reason to be that way.. it's a public board. I'm not choosing sides here because I don't have a bone to pick with anyone, but this really bothers me when people get this way. 

    I just feel like if you are going to be a part of the board then be a part of the board.  Don't come back when you want to make someone feel stupid or sh!tty.  This isn't even the right place to say something like that.  This thread is about Kari and her having a miscarriage....it would have been nice to send some condolences her way. 

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  • imageLauraR326:
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    imageLauraR326:

    Thanks for coming back to the board.  We were perfectly fine with you being gone though. 

    ummm can I just say there is no reason to be that way.. it's a public board. I'm not choosing sides here because I don't have a bone to pick with anyone, but this really bothers me when people get this way. 

    I just feel like if you are going to be a part of the board then be a part of the board.  Don't come back when you want to make someone feel stupid or sh!tty.  This isn't even the right place to say something like that.  This thread is about Kari and her having a miscarriage....it would have been nice to send some condolences her way. 

    True enough.. personally I don't think it was meant in a bad way, but it is easy to have it taken that way. I guess it should have maybe been done differently but it happens. 

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    imageA_Farmers_Wife:

    imageLauraR326:
      We were close to having a miscarriage because my progesterone was super low and had to get put on immediate suppositories to bring it back up.  

    Hmm You don't get close to having a m/c. You either have one or you don't/

    This is most definitely NOT the post to be commenting on someone's medical issues and if you believe they are wrong. Have some compassion for Kari please. End Rant.

    This exactly! This is about Kari and what she's going through right now. Not for people to be questioning and picking apart other's statements. And I'm no expert, but FWIW I have read extensively that low progesterone levels can lead to m/c and is one of the first things they check when doing b/w and testing.

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  • imagekrissyrose210:
    imageA_Farmers_Wife:

    imageLauraR326:
      We were close to having a miscarriage because my progesterone was super low and had to get put on immediate suppositories to bring it back up.  

    Hmm You don't get close to having a m/c. You either have one or you don't/

    This is most definitely NOT the post to be commenting on someone's medical issues and if you believe they are wrong. Have some compassion for Kari please. End Rant.

    I couldn't agree more with what Krissy said... the rolling of the eye emoticon really doesn't belong in this post!

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  • imageLauraR326:

    Uhm actually you do. My progesterone dropped really low and I believe once you get below a 10 your body is proned to miscarriage.  Don't quote me on the exact number because I'm sure you will find a way, but its what my dr said. 

    Thanks for coming back to the board.  We were perfectly fine with you being gone though. 

    Just b/c your progesterone levels are low doesn't mean you are going to have a m/c. Yes, low levels of progesterone can lead to m/c but it isn't a guarantee. Increasing the the progesterone to a more normal level is proactively treating the low levels, but by no means did you almost have a m/c. You either have one or you don't.

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