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KareBear0408 · October 2011

Johlise:
LauraR326:
Johlise:
LauraR326:

Thanks for coming back to the board. We were perfectly fine with you being gone though.

ummm can I just say there is no reason to be that way.. it's a public board. I'm not choosing sides here because I don't have a bone to pick with anyone, but this really bothers me when people get this way.

I just feel like if you are going to be a part of the board then be a part of the board. Don't come back when you want to make someone feel stupid or sh!tty. This isn't even the right place to say something like that. This thread is about Kari and her having a miscarriage....it would have been nice to send some condolences her way.
True enough.. personally I don't think it was meant in a bad way, but it is easy to have it taken that way. I guess it should have maybe been done differently but it happens.

Actually..I took it pretty offensively. In fact...I think it's shiitty. If you don't care about what happened to me or what I'm going through, fine. If you don't care if I ever have a baby, fine. But to completely ignore what's happening to me just to call someone else out is completely ridiculous, in my opinion.

Johlise · October 2011

KareBear0408:
Johlise:
LauraR326:
Johlise:
LauraR326:

Thanks for coming back to the board. We were perfectly fine with you being gone though.

ummm can I just say there is no reason to be that way.. it's a public board. I'm not choosing sides here because I don't have a bone to pick with anyone, but this really bothers me when people get this way.

I just feel like if you are going to be a part of the board then be a part of the board. Don't come back when you want to make someone feel stupid or sh!tty. This isn't even the right place to say something like that. This thread is about Kari and her having a miscarriage....it would have been nice to send some condolences her way.
True enough.. personally I don't think it was meant in a bad way, but it is easy to have it taken that way. I guess it should have maybe been done differently but it happens.
Actually..I took it pretty offensively. In fact...I think it's shiitty. If you don't care about what happened to me or what I'm going through, fine. If you don't care if I ever have a baby, fine. But to completely ignore what's happening to me just to call someone else out is completely ridiculous, in my opinion.

(hugs)

reenie83 · October 2011

Lots of hugs Kari. I can't imagine what you are going through. Know that we are here for you if you need anything.

LauraR326 · October 2011

A_Farmers_Wife:
LauraR326:

Uhm actually you do. My progesterone dropped really low and I believe once you get below a 10 your body is proned to miscarriage. Don't quote me on the exact number because I'm sure you will find a way, but its what my dr said.

Thanks for coming back to the board. We were perfectly fine with you being gone though.

Just b/c your progesterone levels are low doesn't mean you are going to have a m/c. Yes, low levels of progesterone can lead to m/c but it isn't a guarantee. Increasing the the progesterone to a more normal level is proactively treating the low levels, but by no means did you almost have a m/c. You either have one or you don't.

My dr said if I didnt get put on the suppositories immediately the risk of miscarriage was high. To me that counts as almost having a miscarriage bc if it wasnt caught that would have been the result.

Kate&Mark · October 2011

LauraR326:
A_Farmers_Wife:
LauraR326:

Uhm actually you do. My progesterone dropped really low and I believe once you get below a 10 your body is proned to miscarriage. Don't quote me on the exact number because I'm sure you will find a way, but its what my dr said.

Thanks for coming back to the board. We were perfectly fine with you being gone though.

Just b/c your progesterone levels are low doesn't mean you are going to have a m/c. Yes, low levels of progesterone can lead to m/c but it isn't a guarantee. Increasing the the progesterone to a more normal level is proactively treating the low levels, but by no means did you almost have a m/c. You either have one or you don't.

My dr said if I didnt get put on the suppositories immediately the risk of miscarriage was high. To me that counts as almost having a miscarriage bc if it wasnt caught that would have been the result.

Laura, please don't feel like you need to defend yourself. The people that matter would never question you on something so serious.

*more hugs for Kari*

blueandgold749 · October 2011

All Hail the Queen of Drive-By Posting and The Knower of All Things Pregnancy Related!

Love you, Kari. Text or call me any time!

AngelSmitty · October 2011

Laura, why should you trust your doctor when we have our own pop-in fertility doctor right on the board?! Anyone need their chart stalked?

Again, Kari, xo.

britlee in love · October 2011

((Extra Hug)) Kari.

moose948 · October 2011

Oh Kari, I am so sorry that you are going through all of this. Please know that you and Jon are in my thoughts and prayers!

wendell98 · October 2011

Kari - You're in my thoughts and prayers. I can only imagine how heart breaking this all is for you two. Hope the RE can help! Right Hug

anewmrsS · October 2011

JuddandJessica:
Oh honey. I'm so sorry.

Ditto this! Big hugs coming your way!

DLpanda08 · October 2011

I'm impressed. You would think with those twins to look after she would have something better to do than lurk on the board waiting to throw bitchy comments around and offering her expert opinion on all things pregnancy related.

We all love you Kari AND Laura.

KareBear0408 · October 2011

Totally copying Liz on this...but...

I love you girls so much!

blueandgold749 · October 2011

KareBear0408:
Totally copying Liz on this...but...

I love you girls so much!

We get each other.

KareBear0408 · October 2011

Yay for a click!

blueandgold749 · October 2011

I feel slightly bad that this devolved into a GIF-fest.. but only slightly because it's making you smile.

saunderslm2 · October 2011

Oh honey I am so sorry. I wish there was something I could say to help. ::hugs::

shortycole2 · October 2011

I know we already texted, but I had to post here that I love you and I'm thinking about you lots. XOXO

crystalangel79 · November 2011

So sorry hon... I can't imagine how rough and emotional this must be for you. Hang in there.... hugs.

jchasmc09 · November 2011

I am so sorry Kari.

Hugs.

mrsm711 · November 2011

I'm so sorry Kari! Lots of vibes for you during this difficult time. I hope the RE can give you some answers.

lmpdjc · November 2011

I'm so sorry, Kari. ((hugs))

Sparkles7509 · November 2011

I know I already commented on your post on your blog (saw that first) but I am so sorry that you are going through this honey! Take care, get yourself better (mind and heart and body), love on that wonderful hubby of yours, and when the time is right I know you'll get that forever baby that you deserve

BIG hugs, and I hope that things work out for you!

crystalangel79 · November 2011

Sparkles7509:
I know I already commented on your post on your blog (saw that first) but I am so sorry that you are going through this honey! Take care, get yourself better (mind and heart and body), love on that wonderful hubby of yours, and when the time is right I know you'll get that forever baby that you deserve BIG hugs, and I hope that things work out for you!

This exactly... well said. I'm so glad you have J with you to walk through this with you. Thoughts and prayers are with you, Kari... and I mean that.

KareBear0408 · November 2011

Thank you girls so much! I love you all so much! Jon and I appreciate your support so much! xoxo

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