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Re: Re: recent discussions of weight and maintaining spousal attractiveness.
It may be true within your relationship; but you have to admit this is not the norm. Particularly for someone suffering from depression, which in my experience has the effect of heightening instead of lessening insecurities and imagined perceptions of tone and motive.
Updated September 2012.
Eh, this whole discussion has taken a turn and I don't even know what we are arguing about anymore.
It might not be the norm, I'm okay with that. But honestly, at that point, I was sitting by the edge of the river trying to figure out how people would explain to my DS why I left him, to be caught up in semantics.
So he's attracted enough by her to get erect by putting it in one hole, but not enough to stay erect in another hole?
Yeah, this is totally just about her weight.
FUUCKING EYEROLL
People don't get to make those decisions consciously. This man's wife doubled her weight to the point she is considering gastric bypass sugery. The OP volunteers she wasn't a twig when they first met and thought that he wasn't into physical appearance and therefore her doubling her weight wouldn't be an issue.
I'll wager the OP is north of 300 pounds.
There is only so much a human can turn a blind eye to. According to the OP, the only place that this is an issue is the bedroom. He treats her well outside of the bedroom. Hell, if her drive matched his, she wouldn't even be posting.