Sex & Romance
Role Playing
Has anyone done any role playing with their spouse? and what kind of role playing? and how did you go about setting the scene?
Re: Role Playing
Sometimes we do.
The best/funniest time was a Stepfather/Stepdaughter roleplay. We texted each other for hours beforehand, setting the "scene," and when we both came home from work, "Mom" was gone on a business trip, etc.
There are so many different scenarios, I'm sure you could find something worth trying. You have to get into it though.
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we did this one berore we were married he was all like...
"what would your FI do if he knew what we were doing" I went along with it. I'm not as in to the dirty talk as he is though.
DH and I don't role play.
But as someone who majored in theater maybe I can still help.
One thing you could try would be to find some erotica short stories, find one you both like. Familiarize yourselves with the story and act it out.
Decide on your basic characters.
For example if you decided on a boss/ secretary role play.
Pick a few key personality traits.
you might decide to be hard working and punctual, or ditzy and disorganized.
With those personality traits in mind pick out a costume.
Based on those characteristics you can choose clothing. Just go to your closet and look for clothes that matches the traits, if you're hard working and punctual, pick out a longer skirt and perhaps a more conservative blouse. If you're disorganized and messy maybe something a little to tight or short to be appropriate in an office setting.
Establish the relationship between your character and your spouses
Are you new to the office? Or have you worked for him a long time? Do you know each other well? Have there been any instances in the past that might have led up to this event? Do you enjoy working in the office?
Create a basic plot that would lead to physical contact.
a scenario for if you're the punctual hard worker.
Perhaps, he's working late, and you drop by the office with a box of takeout from his favorite restaurant. Maybe as he takes it from you he notices something physical about you (color of your eyes, smell of your perfume) and gets closer and closer until he kisses you. and eventually make sweet sweet love
Or
Maybe he's working late, you stop by to see how things are going, and while you're there he gets something in his eye. You get it out and on an impulse that had been building for years, you kiss him, and things progress until you have wild monkey sex on his desk.
Or if you have slight s&m leanings
perhaps you being your usual ditzy self accidentally shredded a file that he needed for a big meeting tomorrow. You beg him not to fire you and instead maybe you get a good spanking.
and he bends you over his desk.
and then go about figuring out the logistics of the physical setting.
This you can put as much or as little effort into as you like.
an office setting would be easy to achieve at home.