Trouble in Paradise
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Go to P&CE.. remember our discussion about a week or so ago?

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Re: Go to P&CE.. remember our discussion about a week or so ago?

  • Which one is that?

    ETA: Ah. I saw the post from earlier and I was just SMH. Why oh why do people always confront their dbag H over the phone when he is still hours away from getting home? 

  • Can you be more specific?

    Though, sidebar, if this FB Timeline thing brings back any sappy "I lurrrve my H" statuses, I will set fire to the Internet.

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  • imageBowiesInSpace:

    Can you be more specific?

    Though, sidebar, if this FB Timeline thing brings back any sappy "I lurrrve my H" statuses, I will set fire to the Internet.

    1.) I think PW means this thread: SwimBikePuke should come play on TIP

    2.) LOL!

    Basically, the general gist is that SBP has some serious TIP. 

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  • imageBowiesInSpace:
    Though, sidebar, if this FB Timeline thing brings back any sappy "I lurrrve my H" statuses, I will set fire to the Internet.

    Am I the only one who finds it weird that it wants to timeline your old relationships with start and end dates? I have only been on FB for about a year with minimal updates so luckily there's not much "timeline" to my page.

  • Ohhhh yeeeeahhhhh.  My response in the first thread still applies.

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  • imagedoglove:

    imageBowiesInSpace:
    Though, sidebar, if this FB Timeline thing brings back any sappy "I lurrrve my H" statuses, I will set fire to the Internet.

    Am I the only one who finds it weird that it wants to timeline your old relationships with start and end dates? I have only been on FB for about a year with minimal updates so luckily there's not much "timeline" to my page.

    Sometimes FB has bad ideas.  This is one of them.  Thanks for dragging my wedding and divorce back out of the closet Zuckerberg.

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  • imagedoglove:

    imageBowiesInSpace:
    Though, sidebar, if this FB Timeline thing brings back any sappy "I lurrrve my H" statuses, I will set fire to the Internet.

    Am I the only one who finds it weird that it wants to timeline your old relationships with start and end dates? I have only been on FB for about a year with minimal updates so luckily there's not much "timeline" to my page.

    That's freakin' creepy.

    And Bowies, it will. I was doing some good old fashioned FB stalking of Mr. Bang's timeline when we both first got them (awhile ago) and all of his ex-wife's attention-whoring "ZOMG BABAYYYYY I LOVE YOUUUUU FOREVERRRR" posts are still there from 2008. It was a special moment.

    And as for SBP ... I was only on page 1 of her OP when it was DD'd. This update does not breed confidence in her H.  

  • So what's gonna happen when Christmas is over and he still won't hand over his passwords? 
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  • What was the original post to which this was an update?
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  • She deleted, but the gist was that she somehow found the name of an email of his that she had never heard of before.

    Past behavior is leading her to question it and think something is fishy. She's paranoid; that's why she called him at work.

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  • Maybe he's buying an SUV? And doesn't want her to see the e-mails from the dealership? I mean, one that doesn't know what a Suburu is?
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  • Her H is sketchy. I wouldn't be surprised if on of those "friendships" was something more.

    Honestly, I would probably not think much of this if it wasn't for the past behavior. She flat out said he hides things a lot.

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  • Okay, in this thread she says it was A secret friendship, but she admitted before that he had done this on two separate occasions, with two separate women.  Does she think no one remembers?  Is she trying not to remember?
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  • imageswimbikepuke:

    This is true, although I did lay down the ground rule that if he has friend who are girls, they need to meet me and they need to know he is married. We even "roll played" ways he could work it into a conversation which sounds really dumb but he said that mentioning you're married in a conversation suggests that you think the other person is hitting on you even if they're not. I also told him that what made me suspicious was not that he had a friend who was a girl, but that he had a friend whom he had never mentioned, whom he had apparently a lot in common with and a number of conversations, that he had even offered to meet with her to discuss getting into sports medicine. And he never. mentioned. her. by name. I told him, "You want to get my back up, let there be another nameless girl out there that you talk with several times a week and never mention to me at all."

    He said he understood that and seriously even now when someone new starts at his office, he's always like, "There's this new bill coder named X...."

    But to your original point, you are right that he still to this day does not think there was anything inappropriate about his friendship with swimming pool chick. He thinks that he has to do these things because I am a worrier.

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  • You know what's really nice?  Having a husband that I don't have to be a "worrier" over.  I think everyone should try it.
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  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    You know what's really nice?  Having a husband that I don't have to be a "worrier" over.  I think everyone should try it.

    YesYes 

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  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    You know what's really nice?  Having a husband that I don't have to be a "worrier" over.  I think everyone should try it.
    Yes
  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    You know what's really nice?  Having a husband that I don't have to be a "worrier" over.  I think everyone should try it.

    Holy Christ yes, Kuus, and this is before you (1) marry that shiz and (2) spawn that shiz.

    Dude is not worthy, NOT WORTHY, and he has no intention of sticking around for the final accounting either way. He's having a fine old time just on his own, isn't he?

    His only worry in life is not how he's let down a perfectly nice person, only how to minimize how much he'll be on the hook for. Don't think he hasn't already thought it through. That poor, stupid, fuckking girl. She gonna get hosed cause she stupid.

  • The fact that this is happening to someone so smug... well, it just warms my heart.
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  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    You know what's really nice?  Having a husband that I don't have to be a "worrier" over.  I think everyone should try it.

    Seriously. It must be exhausting and depressing to constantly worry about what your DH is hiding from you.

    Tongue Tied

  • imagedoglove:

    imageReturnOfKuus:
    You know what's really nice?  Having a husband that I don't have to be a "worrier" over.  I think everyone should try it.

    Seriously. It must be exhausting and depressing to constantly worry about what your DH is hiding from you.

    Tongue Tied

    Anytime someone speaks about how they have "strict rules" for their SO's behavior, my antennae go up.  Call me crazy, but you don't marry someone you don't trust.  You can't micromanage the douche away. 

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    imageReturnOfKuus:
    You know what's really nice?  Having a husband that I don't have to be a "worrier" over.  I think everyone should try it.

    Holy Christ yes, Kuus, and this is before you (1) marry that shiz and (2) spawn that shiz.

    Dude is not worthy, NOT WORTHY, and he has no intention of sticking around for the final accounting either way. He's having a fine old time just on his own, isn't he?

    His only worry in life is not how he's let down a perfectly nice person, only how to minimize how much he'll be on the hook for. Don't think he hasn't already thought it through. That poor, stupid, fuckking girl. She gonna get hosed cause she stupid.

    Wait.... are we still talking about SBP? I thought we were, but then I got to that part and I'm like waaaaaaaait a second.

  • imageXSailoretteX:
    imagefussbucket:

    imageReturnOfKuus:
    You know what's really nice?  Having a husband that I don't have to be a "worrier" over.  I think everyone should try it.

    Holy Christ yes, Kuus, and this is before you (1) marry that shiz and (2) spawn that shiz.

    Dude is not worthy, NOT WORTHY, and he has no intention of sticking around for the final accounting either way. He's having a fine old time just on his own, isn't he?

    His only worry in life is not how he's let down a perfectly nice person, only how to minimize how much he'll be on the hook for. Don't think he hasn't already thought it through. That poor, stupid, fuckking girl. She gonna get hosed cause she stupid.

    Wait.... are we still talking about SBP? I thought we were, but then I got to that part and I'm like waaaaaaaait a second.

    Bwhahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Right??

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  • imageInterrobang:

    She updated. Her H sounds like an azz. 

    http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/61325049.aspx 

    Something sounds fishy about the email. Really - you can delete emails and your trash can.

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