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Go to P&CE.. remember our discussion about a week or so ago?

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Re: Go to P&CE.. remember our discussion about a week or so ago?

  • imagedoglove:
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    She updated. Her H sounds like an azz. 

    http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/61325049.aspx 

    Something sounds fishy about the email. Really - you can delete emails and your trash can.

    Totally fishy. The level of sketchiness I don't know - but something about this is making my sketchometer go off. 

  • imagedoglove:
    imageInterrobang:

    She updated. Her H sounds like an azz. 

    http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/61325049.aspx 

    Something sounds fishy about the email. Really - you can delete emails and your trash can.

    OMG thank you!! And they are all say sorry and give him a BJ. Um no.

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  • imageESDReturns:
    imagedoglove:
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    She updated. Her H sounds like an azz. 

    http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/61325049.aspx 

    Something sounds fishy about the email. Really - you can delete emails and your trash can.

    OMG thank you!! And they are all say sorry and give him a BJ. Um no.

    So much sketchy. I'm not even talking about the old email. I mean the not wanting to give up his "password to everything" and her being so concerned about the old account. Everything.

     I have the password to DH's email account. Not because I want it, but because every so often he'll call me and need a phone number / address / directions that he has in his email and doesn't have access on his phone. I don't look at other stuff because it is boring.

    I would guarantee that it is his password to everything else because I'm constantly telling him what a horrible idea one password to everything is -- and a week later he'll be like "can you get on my Facebook account and message Bob that I'll stop by after work and return his wrench... it's the usual password" and I'm like "change your password!!"

    Okay, story hour over.

    Oh, and Gmail totally asked me to switch to the new layout every time I logged in for a month until I finally said yes. So yeah, that doesn't mean anything at all.

    Oh, and her browser history isn't just making shiit up to mess with her.

  • The defensiveness and trying to turn it back around on her is all the information any of us need to realize what is actually going on here.

    And some of the chicks on that board are fvcking delusional (and it makes me question whether they also have lying, moron dovchebag husbands as well).  "No sleep and sick kids will exacerbate previous trust issues".  Um, no... a husband that is LYING TO YOUR FVCKING FACE is what exacerbates previous trust issues.  And "you guys need a night out alone" is just fvcking laughable.  Oh, so a date night will fix that the fact that your husband is LYING TO YOUR FVCKING FACE?!

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  • imageInterrobang:
    imagedoglove:
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    She updated. Her H sounds like an azz. 

    http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/61325049.aspx 

    Something sounds fishy about the email. Really - you can delete emails and your trash can.

    Totally fishy. The level of sketchiness I don't know - but something about this is making my sketchometer go off. 

    Yep, that combined with his pouting over not being able to make female friends in years.  That's just weird and fishy.

    I'm side-eyeing the whole "he doesn't have time" thing.  I can think of many things I'd find to do other than print out Xmas card envelopes. 

    I hope he's not having an affair, but, really, the amount of energy that must go into babysitting this man to make sure he doesn't get into trouble has to be exhausting.

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  • WAIT! They suggested an ACTUAL BJ!? I though ESD was being a little hyperbolic but NO! They actually suggested that she make him pancakes and give him a BJ!

     

     

    Sidenote: who gives a bj and doesn't finish? That just rude.

  • Dude, so unhealthy. Who says, "It wasn't me." ???  And yeah, everything can be deleted, so him showing her means NOTHING. And the gloating, I'd punch him in his face.

     

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  • Textbook gaslighting. She's such a suspicious worrier! She's so mean to him! It was only like the once! Come the f*ck on.
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  • This has all classic signs of manipulative doucheitis.  Wow.
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  • There is nothing worse than when some other poster with an even more fvcked up relationship comes on right away to say stupid shiit.
  • What I suspect is that DH had another "girl friend", that he does it to feed his ego, that he's honest when he's saying he hasn't had an "affair."  I suspect he exchanges some emails, talks about things they have in common, flirts, etc... and knowing that I would not be cool with that, he hides it.  He also thinks that it's a victimless crime because he never intends for it to go anywhere.  This is in keeping with his consistent attitude towards the other two girls.  That it was completely irrelevant whether they were interested in him because he was not interested in them.

    Yeah, you can't solve sh!t like this. He's never going to stop, because he doesn't understand normal adult boundaries. 

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  • She does realize that you can manipulate the sent time of a message in Gmail, right? Email can be predated as far back as 2004.

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  • imageMotzie:
    There is nothing worse than when some other poster with an even more fvcked up relationship comes on right away to say stupid shiit.

    For swears.

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  • imageXSailoretteX:

    She does realize that you can manipulate the sent time of a message in Gmail, right? Email can be predated as far back as 2004.

    Gmail Custom Time

    Uh, I think you need to check the date on that. 

  • imagesmock.smock:
    imageXSailoretteX:

    She does realize that you can manipulate the sent time of a message in Gmail, right? Email can be predated as far back as 2004.

    Gmail Custom Time

    Uh, I think you need to check the date on that. 

    LOL... it took me longer than I'd like to admit to figure that out.

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  • imagesmock.smock:

    What I suspect is that DH had another "girl friend", that he does it to feed his ego, that he's honest when he's saying he hasn't had an "affair."  I suspect he exchanges some emails, talks about things they have in common, flirts, etc... and knowing that I would not be cool with that, he hides it.  He also thinks that it's a victimless crime because he never intends for it to go anywhere.  This is in keeping with his consistent attitude towards the other two girls.  That it was completely irrelevant whether they were interested in him because he was not interested in them.

    Yeah, you can't solve sh!t like this. He's never going to stop, because he doesn't understand normal adult boundaries. 

    So...best case scenario is that he's a married man who gets off on cockteasing other women?  He sounds like a peach, an absolute fvcking peach. 

    How do men like this make it past the dating stage? 

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  • imagesmock.smock:
    imageXSailoretteX:

    She does realize that you can manipulate the sent time of a message in Gmail, right? Email can be predated as far back as 2004.

    Gmail Custom Time

    Uh, I think you need to check the date on that. 

    That's sad! I never got to use it!

    .... though maybe that says something encouraging about my life in general

  • imageXSailoretteX:
    imagesmock.smock:
    imageXSailoretteX:

    She does realize that you can manipulate the sent time of a message in Gmail, right? Email can be predated as far back as 2004.

    Gmail Custom Time

    Uh, I think you need to check the date on that. 

    That's sad! I never got to use it!

    .... though maybe that says something encouraging about my life in general

    Not what she means.  Look again.

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  • imageimoan:
    imageXSailoretteX:
    imagesmock.smock:
    imageXSailoretteX:

    She does realize that you can manipulate the sent time of a message in Gmail, right? Email can be predated as far back as 2004.

    Gmail Custom Time

    Uh, I think you need to check the date on that. 

    That's sad! I never got to use it!

    .... though maybe that says something encouraging about my life in general

    Not what she means.  Look again.

    *facepalm

  • imageMotzie:

    Dude, so unhealthy. Who says, "It wasn't me." ???  

     

    Shaggy.   *nods* 

    http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/shaggy/itwasntme.html

     

     

     

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  • I just assumed you meant a night with no witnesses, Lyss.
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  • It doesn't matter guys: (from a ML post)

     

    Honestly, (here's my flameful opinion), it all feels kind of moot, because I would personally tolerate just about anything to avoid having to put my kids through a divorce. So do I really want to know WTF is going on? Yes. Does it really change anything? No.

    Oh, and last year, I found some other woman's earring in my bed, so there's that.

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  • imagehuber22:

    It doesn't matter guys: (from a ML post)

     

    Honestly, (here's my flameful opinion), it all feels kind of moot, because I would personally tolerate just about anything to avoid having to put my kids through a divorce. So do I really want to know WTF is going on? Yes. Does it really change anything? No.

    Oh, and last year, I found some other woman's earring in my bed, so there's that.

     

    IndifferentIndifferentIndifferentIndifferentIndifferentIndifferentIndifferentIndifferent WTMF?

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  • Wait, what?  Is that from SBP in another thread?
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  • imageSweetCuppinCakes:
    imagehuber22:

    It doesn't matter guys: (from a ML post)

     

    Honestly, (here's my flameful opinion), it all feels kind of moot, because I would personally tolerate just about anything to avoid having to put my kids through a divorce. So do I really want to know WTF is going on? Yes. Does it really change anything? No.

    Oh, and last year, I found some other woman's earring in my bed, so there's that.

     

    IndifferentIndifferentIndifferentIndifferentIndifferentIndifferentIndifferentIndifferent WTMF?

    Wait... what? I'm too fvcking dim to get an April Fool's joke today so obviously I'm having some trouble keeping up, but... WTF? 

  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    Wait, what?  Is that from SBP in another thread?

    Yup. In the ML flameful.

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  • Did anyone bother to mention this in the P&CE thread where people were telling her to apologize and suck his d*ck for being suspicious?
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