Trouble in Paradise
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Re: Go to P&CE.. remember our discussion about a week or so ago?
I knew, knew, knew that SBP was one of those people that would NEVER divorce, no matter what he did because of her wittle pweciouses and we all know that us children of divorce are just fvcked up beyond all repair.
AN EARRING IN HER BED!?
I'm sorry, if you find that shyt and you decide that you'd rather ignore it because God forbid your young children have to have two Christmases and not this perfect vision of what you have for an adorable nuclear family... well, you deserve the chlamydia that you'll surely be experiencing.
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
Oh shiit, this just got sad.
How she can tell another woman that she's uneducated for deciding to circumsize her son all the while putting up with a cheating husband is beyond me. Who's the dumb one again?
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Sigh.
All of the stay-together-no-matter-what bullshiit reminds me of a friend of mine. She's an older lady with kids in their twenties. She got KU'd by her boyfriend and felt like she had no choice but to marry the guy.
Their first night home after the honeymoon, her DH didn't come home from work until like 3am, drunk, told her that they were married now and he could do whatever the fvck her wanted and to deal with it.
They had another kid a couple of years later.
So about 20 years later, her daughter (kid 1) sits her down and tells her that her son (kid 2) is graduating from high school, so if she was staying with the douchebag father for the the kids, they're not kids anymore so it's time to pack.
She did.
Her son treated her like absolute shiit. Stopped speaking to her during the divorce and told everyone in our dumb little town what a worthless hor his mom was, ect. Why? Because he had spent 18 years learning that men get to treat women like ***. And they'll stick around. Because they love them.
I certainly believe that once you have children, they are more important than you because you chose to have them and their whole little world depends on you. But I also believe that not teaching by example that Mama is a punchbag (emotional or otherwise) is more important than having to hammer out a custody arrangement.
The end.
Oh, friend's happily remarried to the most awesome guy ever and her son mostly got over himself but is still a pretty stunted d-bag.