Trouble in Paradise
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Re: TTGP TIP
That said, I don't know the poster's history or if she's over-obssessive about TTC.
Cliff notes: Girl's husband went on a boy's weekend to drink etc. during her fertile window. While out with his friends I guess they got to discussing TTC. H's friends ask what type of OPK the dude's wife (OP) uses. He texts her to ask. She lays into him about being gone during fertile window etc. and then all he has to reply is a question about OPK's?
OP's H says that he doesn't care how mad she is and that he was ready to TTC 2 years ago and she wasn't (so essentially don't blame him or be mad). Overall douchey response.
Maybe the OP was crazier than the Cliff's Notes...but I'm not seeing the huge issue here. Did he leave without her permission? When a couple is TTC, are they required to have sex every time the woman is ovulating? Did she not want him to go? Isn't the window longer than a weekend? Do you have to stop drop and bone every time there's a window of fertility? What if you don't feel like it? What if your friends are going away and it's a unique opportunity to all get together?
All of this sounds really benign to me, and I feel like she overreacted.
My Lunch Blog
She apparently checked the weather and said it looked clear.
He threw in her face that he was ready to start TTC 2 years ago but she wasn't. The reason she wasn't ready to start was she wanted to finish her graduate program first.