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welp. this is new.

As it it turns out, I am pregnant. 6 weeks and 1 day. I don't FEEL pregnant. At least not in the typical sense. I have had a cold for about 3 weeks, which I guess is common because your immune system drops out to let the embryo attach. But it's also cold season. Oh, and I'm constipated, but I'm not sure that counts.

So I took a test on Thursday night, fully expecting it to be negative. I have endometriosis. I barely have periods- maybe 2 or 3 a year. I've been told I'll probably need surgery to get pregnant. I've also been on the pill for about 463 years. And there has been speculation that my right ovary isn't working. So anyway, big shock.

Called my doc on Friday, did a hcg (17000) and a progesterone (a low 7). My ultrasound measured me at 5 weeks and 5 days. I got put on a supplement for the progesterone. Talked to my nurse today, and she's worried because my ultrasound should show me further along, for having a good hcg. She's calling me back after she speaks to the OB.

What say you, moms? Am I headed towards a miscarriage? I have to be honest, I haven't wrapped my head around all this. P is really happy and excited, but I'm just still not believing it's even true. I guess the lack of symptoms makes it weird.

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  • Holy crap!  Is this good news?  Or are you just a bit shell shocked?
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  • Wow. That's a lot to digest. I don't know about miscarriage, but I had no symptoms until some time between 6 and 7 weeks along.
  • I new this was going to be pregnancy post.  maybe I'll be psychic in 2012.

    congrats?  (I guess I'm not that psychic, yet)

     

    ETA: I hope my congrats doesn't come off douchey considering you're questioning the possibility of a miscarriage.  sorry about that.

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  • I never had most of the typical 'symptoms' I suppose. I felt PMSy early on, but that's about it. 
  • Holy crap. Congratulations? Are you hoping it sticks? You were on the pill?
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  • I've got no good input as far as m/c signs.  The main thing I remember about early pregnancy symptoms is sore boobs.  Good luck with everything.
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  • How does she know you are supposed to be 6 weeks and 1 day if you don't have periods? Are they are just going by your hcg numbers? Those vary widely, so it's not an accurate measurement of how far along your pregnancy is. An ultrasound is a much better measure. I would assume they'd want to bring you in in another week or two to see if there's a heartbeat and/or re-do your hcg to see if it's rising appropriately (with a number like 17,000 I suspect it's rising just fine. That's high).  It's really so early, there are no tell-tale signs of miscarriage (short of a lot of bleeding).

    Well, shiit, I hope this turns out well for you. Would this be a good thing if everything turned out OK?

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  • Whoa!  That's a lot to process.  I hope everything works out ok for you.  I have no advice on the miscarriage front, but it sounds like they caught the low progesterone early and got you on a supplement, perhaps that bodes well for this little bugger sticking around.
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    At the same point as you I was told I was "probably going to have a miscarriage". Well, E is turning 3 in 3 weeks so I guess they were wrong.

    Congrats!

  • I didn't really have symptoms until about 7 weeks, either. Even though your progesterone is low, it doesn't mean that you're on your way to miscarriage, especially since it's now supplemented. Like Lisa said, your dates could be wrong. Also, somestimes even ultrasound measurements can lag a bit (by up to 7 days), so you could measure small one appointment and then normal the next. Pregnancy is weird. Are you taking vitamins with folic acid? ETA: Congrats! Start buying prune juice. For real.
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  • Whoa, I would definitely be shell shocked.  I don't know much about miscarriages at this point, but sending you positive thoughts.
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  • We can't go off my periods, because I never really have them. I think my last one was about 6 months ago- which is totally normal for me.

    I am neutral, really. When I first saw the positive sign, I cried for about 2 hours. Over the weekend, I've been thinking about how effin' crazy this is, that it actually happened when I was always told it would be difficult for me. So if I have the baby, great- this could be my one shot. If it miscarries, I'm ok with that too. I wasn't planning on having a kid until I moved into a bigger house anyway.

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  • Woah. I mean congrats for sure, but woah dude. And I wouldn't stress about a m/c at this point. It's just really too early 
  • Wow, that's big!  I didn't really have any symptoms early on either.  In fact, I've had really minimal symptoms all along. So, I don't think that necessarily means anything bad.

    Congratulations, and I hope everything turns out ok.

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  • I also wanted to add that I didn't intend my congrats to sound snarky...just that there may be some mixed feelings about it and that's okay. I hope it sticks and I would also add that you're never prepared for parenthood - even when you think you are. It's always a game changer.
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  • I'm not on any prenatals yet. I haven't even had an appt witht he OB yet. Like I said, Thursday night was the at home test, and Friday was bloodowrk and getting squeezed in for an US at my hospital. They closed early Friday, and didn't open until today, so we're kind of hustling to get it all together.

    I guess I was just concerned with the combo of a low progesterone and the gestational sac (I think that's what she called it) not showing a whole lot for a 17000 hcg.

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  • I also had no real pregnancy symptoms really the whole way through my pregnancy.  I was exhausted the first trimester and a bit crampy at times, but that's really about it.  I also had bleeding/spotting from week 5 to 10 and everything turned out fine, so it's really hard to predict what may happen.  I hope everything turns out ok for you.

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  • I would stop by and pick up some OTC prenatals rather than wait for the OB appointment. The prescription ones aren't all that different from OTC. Good luck, Mo. 
  • That's a good idea, Wendy. Thanks for all the well wishes. I really don't want to deal with The Stupid of the bump.
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  • Good luck. I hope everything turns out perfectly.
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  • wowza, cangrats!!
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  • Good Luck! Give yourself a few days to wrap your head around it before trying to figure out how you feel. I hope everything works out for you, and I think it's cute that P is so excited.
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  • I had my first ultrasound at 5w and change, and they told me the same thing.  I was on BCP and wasn't expecting a pregnancy.  I didn't have many symptoms at that point, aside from no period.  I was so shell-shocked and cried for days.  Happy, healthy DD is 2.5 y.o. and I wouldn't trade her for the world.  I hope everything goes well. 

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  • Wow, Mo. You seem to be handling this really well, much better than I did. I definitely think it's okay to take a few days and think it over. It's such a shock. I hope everything turns out exactly how you want it to. 

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  • imagebuddhagouda:
    Good Luck! Give yourself a few days to wrap your head around it before trying to figure out how you feel. I hope everything works out for you, and I think it's cute that P is so excited.

    OMG, he's such a girl. I was all freaked out and crying and "I'm not READY YET. I can't even keep the DOG in the yard, how will I wrangle a kid??" And his meek little voice said, "This isn't the reaction I was hoping for..." Like he's the one breaking the news to me. Too funny.

    Anyway, just got off the phone with the nurse. Going back for an US on Thursday at 11:00. Also, that morning I will get my hcg, and progesterone redrawn, along with the Rh, which I'm not sure why that's pertinent at this point, but whatever. I don't know enough to ask her why we're worrying about blood type. Oh, and she said that it is a good idea to go get some OTC prenatals. So I'll be getting those in about 15 minutes.

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    I don't know enough to ask her why we're worrying about blood type. Oh, and she said that it is a good idea to go get some OTC prenatals. So I'll be getting those in about 15 minutes.

    You must be rH negative?

    If you are and the fetus is positive, they have to give you something to keep your body from attacking it. The details are fuzzy for me because it wasn't an issue for us.

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    Wow, Mo. You seem to be handling this really well, much better than I did. I definitely think it's okay to take a few days and think it over. It's such a shock. I hope everything turns out exactly how you want it to. 

    Hmm 

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  • imageEssBe:
    Wow, Mo. You seem to be handling this really well, much better than I did. I definitely think it's okay to take a few days and think it over. It's such a shock. I hope everything turns out exactly how you want it to. 
    Wait. What. Are you pregnant?
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    imageEssBe:
    Wow, Mo. You seem to be handling this really well, much better than I did. I definitely think it's okay to take a few days and think it over. It's such a shock. I hope everything turns out exactly how you want it to. 
    Wait. What. Are you pregnant?

    I read this four times before deciding I must have missed a pregnancy scare/miscarriage from SB and deciding to mind my own business.  

  • imageWendyToo:

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    imageEssBe:
    Wow, Mo. You seem to be handling this really well, much better than I did. I definitely think it's okay to take a few days and think it over. It's such a shock. I hope everything turns out exactly how you want it to. 
    Wait. What. Are you pregnant?

    I read this four times before deciding I must have missed a pregnancy scare/miscarriage from SB and deciding to mind my own business.  

    Me too.

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