Relationships
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

welp. this is new.

2»

Re: welp. this is new.

  • imagebuddhagouda:

    imageMadameS:
    I don't know enough to ask her why we're worrying about blood type. Oh, and she said that it is a good idea to go get some OTC prenatals. So I'll be getting those in about 15 minutes.

    You must be rH negative?

    If you are and the fetus is positive, they have to give you something to keep your body from attacking it. The details are fuzzy for me because it wasn't an issue for us.

    this is true, but you don't get the shot until 26 weeks, if I recall correctly and then again within 24 hrs of delivering if the baby is rh pos.
    image Mabel the Loser.
  • imagemashedpotato:
    imageWendyToo:

    imageFallinAgain:
    imageEssBe:
    Wow, Mo. You seem to be handling this really well, much better than I did. I definitely think it's okay to take a few days and think it over. It's such a shock. I hope everything turns out exactly how you want it to. 
    Wait. What. Are you pregnant?

    I read this four times before deciding I must have missed a pregnancy scare/miscarriage from SB and deciding to mind my own business.  

    Me too.

    me three, but I'm not going to pretend I'm not glad somebody else asked 

    image
  • TSDTSD member
    imagekrisdi78:

    I also had no real pregnancy symptoms really the whole way through my pregnancy.  I was exhausted the first trimester and a bit crampy at times, but that's really about it.  I also had bleeding/spotting from week 5 to 10 and everything turned out fine, so it's really hard to predict what may happen.  I hope everything turns out ok for you.

    I also had low progesterone and had to use suppositories like the whole first trimester

  • Oh god no. I mis-typed. That should have been would. Sorry dudes, I am NOT pregnant. 

    image
    we all fall down sometimes
    brass and ballet flats
  • imageEssBe:
    Oh god no. I mis-typed. That should have been would. Sorry dudes, I am NOT pregnant. 

    Bad, SB. BAD. 

    image
  • imageEssBe:
    Oh god no. I mis-typed. That should have been would. Sorry dudes, I am NOT pregnant. 

    That was a pretty alarming typo.

    image
    Baby Boxer is coming! 5.23.12
    www.focushunting.com
  • Worst mis-type ever, SB.

    Sounds like you're in a good place no matter what happens, Mo.  Let's hope it sticks around for P's sake at the very least.  But what on earth are you talking about here: 

    imageMadameS:

    wasn't planning on having a kid until I moved into a bigger house anyway.

    It's not like you live in Fitty's dog house.

    image
    "That chick wins at Penises, for sure." -- Fenton
  • I never mind my own business.
    image
  • Congrats, I hope it all works out. It is cute P is so excited.
  • imageCaliopeSpidrman:

    Worst mis-type ever, SB.

    Sounds like you're in a good place no matter what happens, Mo.  Let's hope it sticks around for P's sake at the very least.  But what on earth are you talking about here: 

    imageMadameS:

    wasn't planning on having a kid until I moved into a bigger house anyway.

    It's not like you live in Fitty's dog house.


    If it makes you feel any better, we are holding a baby hostage in an 850 sq foot house. She even gets a crib. So far it is working.

    Congratulations! Babies aren't so bad (usually)

     

    image
    For less then ten cents a day, you can feed a hungry child.
  • Wow, Mo! I hope everything works out. We only saw a sac with Owen at 5w6d and they thought I was closer to 7 weeks. But here he is. Best wishes and we're here to answer your questions.
    image Ready to rumble.
  • The house has three bedrooms. It's just under 1400 square feet. One is a guest room/ cat litter box room. Thankfully, we don't have a lot of guests :) The smallest room is pretty small, I currently use it as an office. It's just the mental shifting of what will be done where. I have an eat-in kitchen, but I don't like the breakfast nook table, yet the dining room is all carpeted and I don't want baby goo-crumbles all over my new table . It's just my obsessive brain thinking too hard.

    Oh, and I'll probably still be working pretty much full time. So that part blows too.

    I figured SB's typo was just something that happened during my hiatus. The typo is better.

    image
  • imageNovemberrocks:
    imagebuddhagouda:

    imageMadameS:
    I don't know enough to ask her why we're worrying about blood type. Oh, and she said that it is a good idea to go get some OTC prenatals. So I'll be getting those in about 15 minutes.

    You must be rH negative?

    If you are and the fetus is positive, they have to give you something to keep your body from attacking it. The details are fuzzy for me because it wasn't an issue for us.

    this is true, but you don't get the shot until 26 weeks, if I recall correctly and then again within 24 hrs of delivering if the baby is rh pos.

    I was rH negative and Delilah is positive.  I had to get the shot at 28 weeks and again after birth when they confirmed she was positive.  Also since I was bleeding early on and they weren't sure at first where the bleeding was coming from they gave me the shot at 12 weeks as well.

    The problem occurs if the mother is neg and baby is pos and the baby's blood gets into the mother's bloodstream.  The mother will see it as a foreign object and start creating antibodies to protect against it.  Therefore in subsequent pregnancies your body can attack a future baby if it is rH positive if the antibodies were created.  The shot is supposed to prevent these antibodies from being created or something like that.  (I may not have explained that very well but hopefully you get the idea). 

    ETA:  This explains it better than I did: http://kidshealth.org/parent/pregnancy_center/your_pregnancy/rh.html

    IMG_2788

    2/20/2011
  • Whoa, that is a lot to process dude. Best of luck, I hope everything works out for you, and I'm sure you'll do great regardless of what the outcome is.
  • That all makes sense. I know I am AB negative. I learned about all that jazz back in school, but never really committed it to memory.
    image
  • Congrats!  

    First, everything that Lisa said regarding the ultra sound and HCG is correct.  HCG is not a good indicator of how far along you are.  It is great that they caught your progestrone now.  I did shots for the first few months but that's standard with IVF.

    The RH shot is given to you if you are RH negative (and P is positive) at 28 weeks or if you bleed at any time during you pregnancy and right after you give birth.  The RH factor will not effective your current pregnancy but the ones after.  If you end up having a child that is positive your body could try to reject the next pregnancy.  But that's what the shot is for.  

     

     

    IVF#1 May 2011 15 Eggs Retrieved, 11 Fertilized using ICSI + HPT on 6/9/11 Beta #1 420 Beta #2 2167 US 7/1 TWINS!! Due 2/18/2012 Brooke and Nora born at 35.6 weeks Jan 20th 2012
  • That's plenty of space.  Babies only need a drawer to sleep in anyway.
    image
    "That chick wins at Penises, for sure." -- Fenton
  • Congrats Mo! Seanicorn was a surprise for us and we truly couldn't be happier to be parents. I spent a while crying about it at first because I didn't know how we would manage it all, but you just make it work and it becomes the new normal -- and a better nromal too. I am jealous of your 1400 sf. We only have 1000 in our new house but it's working out just fine.
    image
    The poster formerly known as PDXPhotoGrl
  • Hey, just curious, but what made you think to take a test?
    image
    The poster formerly known as PDXPhotoGrl
  • Congratulations, Mo.  I wish you an easy, healthy pregnancy.  I'm sure you'll be able to make everything else fall right into place, and in a year's time, you'll wonder what you were so worried about.
  • imagescienarasucka:
    Hey, just curious, but what made you think to take a test?

    Well, like I said, I have endometriosis,so I take three pill pack in a row, then a week off. In the last year or so, I haven't had my period during the 'off week", but I usually get a little breakthrough bleeding for a day or two. Around thanksgiving (when I probably wasn't even pregnant yet), I started to ask P if he remembered my last period because I couldn't. Neither one of us could. I "think" I was due for one in August, but couldn't say for sure, so I figured I'd wait another week or so and see. Then I had one ever so slight moment of pinkish spotting when I was at a wedding (Dec 17), but I was drunk and almost thought I imagined it the next day when I didn't wake up to a period.

     Then it became Christmas, and I didn't want to even think about it so I bought the test (where the cashier and i had a VERY awkward conversation about her kids being taken away from her) after the holiday. It's not unusual for me to take one periodically just because my periods are so wonky. However, if I had taken it when I first thought about it, it probably would have been negative, so I guess it's good I procrastinated.

    It's all just a very weird series of events. Like, other kind of ironic things have been happening too, which in retrospect are like "whoa".

     

    image
  • TSDTSD member

    It's super early and I don't believe the docs are ever truly accurate. I knew exactly the day I conceived because I used a fertility monitor and had sex when the egg came up on it. But, the doc counts from the last period. So, first I had a due date of Feb 11, then Feb 7, doc was going to induce me on Feb 1 and I ended up going into labor after a relatively easy, problem-free pregnancy what according to their first assessment would've been 3 weeks early. Or not.

    When I first peed on the stick, it was like the first day i could get a positive and the doc saw me right away because it just happens to be a high risk doc. I tried explaining that I knew exactly when, this was really early, etc, but no one seemed to care about that info. That's when they told me progesterone low, needed the suppositories every day like 2x a day or I'd prob miscarry, plus there was no HB. Well, most docs won't even see you till 8 weeks because you're most likely not going to get a HB. So, I had to go to Dallas on a business trip, using the progesterone and thinking I'd miscarry. I didn't. Not saying it's going to be the same, but that was my experience. Just didn't have time to type it all out before.

  • Holy crap, Mo! Sorry I was so flippant in my 2012 baby prediction for you. And congrats.
    image

    Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.
  • imagesalimoo:
    Holy crap, Mo! Sorry I was so flippant in my 2012 baby prediction for you. And congrats.

    Maybe we should dub you Madame CleMoo.

    image
    "That chick wins at Penises, for sure." -- Fenton
  • Congrats/Best Wishes/Good Luck! Choose the sentiment that best fits your feelings at the moment.

    I saw the doc relatively early and I don't remember my numbers off the top of my head but I want to say that they weren't even that high.

    ETA: Oh yeah, my symptoms didn't arrive until about 11 weeks. Before that I felt a bit crampy and had to get up to pee a bunch of times at night but I only tested because we were trying.

    I'm pretty sure it's pronounced your mom's a moron and if you didn't have your name legally changed by the age of 22, so are you. Unless you're from another continent. -Groomz
  • Oh wow. That's insane, really. I didn't have symptoms until about 7 or so weeks. Then I got really bad with the nausea, so I had symptoms but they waited a bit to come out and present themselves. I don't know anything about HcG levels since mine were never discussed and my ultrasound was done at what we thought was 8 weeks, though when we got it done they dated me at about 9.5 weeks.

    Just as an aside- my kid was a total surprise and actually happened about 2 months after I had really decided I didn't even want kids. I thought about terminating for a few weeks, that's how freaked out I was. Obviously I ultimately kept the pregnancy and parenthood is pretty cool. But just saying that this crap is way scary when it sinks in and no matter what you end up feeling, it's totally normal.

    I hope everything works out the way you want it to. Please keep us updated.

    image

    "If you wanna win then you shoulda put a hat on it. Don't be mad when you see a knit cap won it. If you wanna win then you shoulda put a hat on it."- Fenton

Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards