well *** (total debbie downer post)

Re: well *** (total debbie downer post)

• AngieP900

  January 2012

  So sorry Buddha.

  And I am with everyone else, I think helping yourself is the best way to help Zane too. 

  Cancer is a dirty, rotten whorepig.
  

  
  For less then ten cents a day, you can feed a hungry child.
  

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• TSD member

  January 2012

  Buddha, i didn't have time to read any of the replies, but I just wanted to say I'm sorry. That's awful. I know what it feels like to feel you've already taken your share of lumps and should get at least a little bit of coasting time. It's just like, "come on man, SERIOUSLY?". So, hugs to you and zane and family.

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• wingedbride

  January 2012

  I'm glad you are talking to your dr about getting on meds. Keep in mind that taking care of you is essential to being able to take care of your family.
  

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• lanie30 member

  January 2012

  If you need anyone to lean on, whose seen this whole thing through, just let me know. OK?

  F CANCER!

  Josephine is 4.

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• samfish2bcrab

  January 2012

  buddhagouda:

  Thanks, everyone. I already have an appointment next week with my therapist, and I think I'm going to ask about meds. With so much crap happening last year, I just feel like I'm not dealing well. I'm anxious and depressed all of the time, and I can't cope with even little things anymore.

  It's making me short-tempered with Ethan and probably zero amounts of fun for Zane. I had already decided that before this news. This shouldn't be about me at all. Zane doesn't need one more thing to have to take care of, but I don't think I can help him right now without doing something for myself. 

  Does that make me an ***?
  

  I'm so sorry, and no, that does not make you an ***.  it makes you honest and human.

   

  

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• oklagirl

  January 2012

  Ah, Buddha. I'm so sorry. I'm thinking about you guys. Definitely don't forget to take care of yourself through all of this.

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• sparrowsocks

  January 2012

  So sorry, Buddha.
  

  
  Caroline 5/15/11
  

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• audreyhorne

  January 2012

  Oh, Buddha, I'm so sorry.  

  

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• pdxmouse

  January 2012

  samfish2bcrab:

  buddhagouda:

  Thanks, everyone. I already have an appointment next week with my therapist, and I think I'm going to ask about meds. With so much crap happening last year, I just feel like I'm not dealing well. I'm anxious and depressed all of the time, and I can't cope with even little things anymore.

  It's making me short-tempered with Ethan and probably zero amounts of fun for Zane. I had already decided that before this news. This shouldn't be about me at all. Zane doesn't need one more thing to have to take care of, but I don't think I can help him right now without doing something for myself. 

  Does that make me an ***?
  

  I'm so sorry, and no, that does not make you an ***.  it makes you honest and human.

   

  And a really smart one at that. Quietly losing your marbles so you're not a bother isn't going to help anything. Kudos to you for seeing what's happening and acting on it.

  ::hugs:: 
  

  
  
  "The meek shall inherit the earth" isn't about children. It's about deer. We're all going to get messed the fuckup by a bunch of cloned super-deer.- samfish2bcrab
  
  Sometimes I wonder if scientists have never seen a sci-fi movie before. "Oh yes, let's create a super species of deer. NOTHING COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG." I wonder if State Farm offers a Zombie Deer Attack policy. -CaliopeSpidrman

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