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Talk me down
So I got a card from my sister in the mail today. Biitch sent me a birthday card I'd sent her years ago. It was at a time when her crazy ass was on the brink and I'd written this message saying that I loved her and I'd always be there for her, whatever. Trying to be supportive. So, yeah, she returned a three year old card. The best part, the post-it on the back "I thought I'd return this since it didn't mean anything."
OH. MY. GOD.
So much rage. I was able to hate run most of it off but I'm still stewing. So, do I ignore it? Or send her back something telling her that I'll be happy to be a part of her life and support her when she stops being a crazy *** and realizes that she's actually insane. BAH! Need more wine.
Re: Talk me down
Ignore.
I had a situation last week on par with this. I've decided it's best to just ignore. You can't fight or reason with crazy and/or narcissistic personality disorder.
For less then ten cents a day, you can feed a hungry child.
So you're the less dramatic of the two sisters?
I kid! And yes, ignore. My mom pulls this BS from time to time. When I ignore, she usually tries once more within the week, and then leaves me alone for several months. If I engage in her crazy, it just spirals. Crazy people stay crazy.
Every time you think about responding, just imagine her in Ana Gasteyer's house, staring at the phone, waiting for your call with her face turning bright red and her fists all clenched in rage, and then laugh at her as she screams. I think that will give you a lot more pleasure than the actual interaction that would take place.
And I bet you one of your sister's gift cards that she'll call you or your mom or someone to check to see if you got the mail she sent you, and then you can laugh even harder.
Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.
Yes. YES.
I bet her FUPA's name is Shane, like the gunslinger/drifter of literature.--HappyTummy
I loooooove Hezz's plan, mine was to engage and send her a Birthday card meant for a 2 year old and write "You were so right about my meaningless card, here's a more appropriate one"
You crack me up. I have to admit, I'm also laughing at how absurd your sister is. It's kind of hilarious. Definitely don't respond or engage. Just laugh about it. It'll drive her up the wall if she can't get a reaction from you.
"That chick wins at Penises, for sure." -- Fenton
Jeeez, that is way harsh!! What royal B! I totally agree with Hezz's plan. That will freak her out for sure.
(Wow, sometimes I'm kind of glad I'm an only child.)
Yeah ignore it. Otherwise its just passive aggressive vs. passive aggressive and round and round you go.
Hey, I'll be in Vegas at the end of May. Doesn't she work at a casino? You can send me the card and I can go to wherever she works and leave it sitting somewhere she could see it. Then she will have the constant feeling that she needs to be looking over her shoulder for you.
Yeah, ignore that $hit. What a weirdo.
Wow, next time I need to mindfucck someone, I'm calling Hezz. That's brilliant.
And Christin, I'm sorry your sister is so crazy. I now feel that you were totally justified in stealing those gift cards.
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You have to do this. Have to. have to have to have to!!!!
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Lordy. Grow some balls and stop lurking. It's like stealing from the internet. Jesuschrist. -- AudreyHorne
I hate love and marriage. I got married so I could destroy these things from the inside. - NoisyPenguin
It's a good thing my circle of trust is as giant as my vagina. That only leaves a couple people out. - Cali
3 out of 4 dead babies agree! pepsi is better than coke! - EdithBouvierBeale
Lordy. Grow some balls and stop lurking. It's like stealing from the internet. Jesuschrist. -- AudreyHorne
I hate love and marriage. I got married so I could destroy these things from the inside. - NoisyPenguin
It's a good thing my circle of trust is as giant as my vagina. That only leaves a couple people out. - Cali
SCORE!
Send it to me. It will be done.
Please tell me she works in the Pussycat Doll lounge or whateverTF that thing is called.