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Re: So, pretty much one of the worst days of my life today.
Malibu, I'm so sorry. Please don't blame yourself.
Malibu I'm so sorry, you and your husband are in my thoughts. I know how devastating it is to lose a pregnancy, even if it was one you weren't planning. There was nothing you could have done, sometimes these things just happen. Take care of yourself.
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Thank you so much everyone. I know this will sound weird, but I am glad I had a place to tell someone, since none of my IRL friends know (and I don't know if I plan to tell anyone, honestly) and I just needed to feel like I wasn't totally alone today. I've never met any of you, but I "talk" to you all almost every day, so you're all my internet pals. It means a lot to me that you all took time to comment.
From some info I received in a PM, I think I'm going to hold off on taking the meds until Sunday. Tomorrow is my cousin's wedding; I really still want to go to it, so I think Sunday will be the day. Toddler Malibu will be staying overnight with a relative anyway, so I'm thinking we'll be kid-free that day and we won't be freaking her out if I'm in pain, crying, sitting in the bathroom for whatever. Can't really explain this to a 13 month old. Today sucks so, so bad. I talked to my mom, she of course cried hysterically. When I talked to H again a little bit ago, I mentioned I might stay overnight at their house tonight so he can take care of Toddler Malibu and I can have a night of rest and can be free to feel miserable and have my mom take care of me. Cause sometimes, a girl just wants her mom, and today's one of those days.
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I am so sorry Malibu.
Take care of yourself, You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Mailbu, I'm so sorry. ((((HUGS))))
Like everyone else said, be gentle with yourself and please don't blame yourself. I hope you were able to get some quality time with your mom. Let your husband be there for you too. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Updated September 2012.