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Confessions! (yes, FF)

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Re: Confessions! (yes, FF)

  • imagekellbell1919:
    imageLiubot:
    imageMintChocoChip:

    imageLiubot:
    I've been having these weird, dull throbby headaches that wrap my whole head into my neck the past two days. They will not go away, even when I take aspirin or tylenol or advil. I also have been getting waves of nausea and dry heaving starting today, and my body feels....weird. I'm hoping its just stress, because really? I don't even want to think about it.

    It's probably just stress but I'd POAS just to be sure.   (says the girl with the abnormally light period who is also assuming it's just stress) Stick out tongue

    I'm 2 days late on AF. I POAS 2 days ago and it was negative, but then I'm second guessing myself because maybe my cycle is off because of stress or I counted wrong and maybe it's too early to test. It's stressful all in itself lol.

    Aren't you on prescription anxiety meds?  I used to get extreme nausea and vertigo if I missed them by even an hour or two.

    I'm on prozac and I take it at the same exact time every day to a T. This is a new thing all together...

    Any way the wind blows...
  • imageMintChocoChip:
    imageLiubot:
    imageMintChocoChip:

    imageLiubot:
    I've been having these weird, dull throbby headaches that wrap my whole head into my neck the past two days. They will not go away, even when I take aspirin or tylenol or advil. I also have been getting waves of nausea and dry heaving starting today, and my body feels....weird. I'm hoping its just stress, because really? I don't even want to think about it.

    It's probably just stress but I'd POAS just to be sure.   (says the girl with the abnormally light period who is also assuming it's just stress) Stick out tongue

    I'm 2 days late on AF. I POAS 2 days ago and it was negative, but then I'm second guessing myself because maybe my cycle is off because of stress or I counted wrong and maybe it's too early to test. It's stressful all in itself lol.

    Yeah stress can mess with ovulation.  You probably just O'd later than normal.  Don't worry, I'm sure AF will show up as soon as you check in on Monday!  She's so rude that way!

    She's a damnbitch that way lol.

    Any way the wind blows...
  • Every week I check the local mugshots on the DSM Register website...keeps me grounded...hahaha.  Lately I have noticed a lot of men are getting arrested for non-payment of child support...and I think that is great.  Most of these guys being arrested for this also have assault, burglary, narc, etc charges as well.  There is a part of me that thinks some of these idiots should be forced into vasectomy's.  I know that sounds communist or harsh, but deadbeats need to be treated harshly.

  • I'm seriously considering building a George Costanza-esque nap area under my desk for when I come to work hung over.  I would consider closing my eyes in the ladies room, but my luck is such that I would actually fall asleep and slip off the potty and injure myself.  Tongue Tied  Mint - Could I claim worker's comp and file suit for that?!  lol
    Pregnancy Ticker People are placed in and taken out of our lives for a multitude of reasons. My faith has me looking upward so I might stay on my path, forward to reach my future and to either side for the ones to walk near me on my journey.
  • imagenyg&p:
    I'm seriously considering building a George Costanza-esque nap area under my desk for when I come to work hung over.  I would consider closing my eyes in the ladies room, but my luck is such that I would actually fall asleep and slip off the potty and injure myself.  Tongue Tied  Mint - Could I claim worker's comp and file suit for that?!  lol

    Doubtful, because it's not a "work related" injury.  Bring a belt and secure yourself to the john for safety instead. YWIA Wink

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  • imageMintChocoChip:
    imagehainesherway:

    imagerakattack:
    I have been separated for 2 1/2 months and I signed up for a match.com profile.

    Really?  Are these flame-free confessions?  lol

    Did you indicate you were separated in your Match profile?

    Edited to indicate FF Stick out tongue

    I signed up soon after I left XH just to see what was out there.  It made me feel better knowing that there were better men out there than the one I had left.

    I did the same thing...honestly it helped me for some reason. While I clearly wasn't ready for a relationship, I did meet a few nice guys and they gave me hope that when I was in fact ready, it would be OK.

    Now that' I've been single for a year and a half...I find it SO much easier honestly. Dating is tough!!!

    The Nestie formally known as....
  • I really don't know what I want in the relationship department any more...
  • imagerakattack:

    Zelda pretty much hit it spot on. 

    You can flame me, lol, but I think I'm being pretty responsible.  I do NOT want to be in a relationship- I just want to get dressed up and go out and have some fun.  I am in counseling, and I ran it by my counselor to see if it was too soon, and she said that it hasn't really been 2 1/2 months, I'd been detaching for much longer.  I first packed my bags up last May, but ended up staying for a few more months.

    I'm team Rak. You deserve to have a little fun :)  I feel you on the 1 year wait. People who don't live in that type of state can't always understand. Mine took 17 months (OUCH).

  • imageCarrotsMakeMeFat:
    imagerakattack:

    Zelda pretty much hit it spot on. 

    You can flame me, lol, but I think I'm being pretty responsible.  I do NOT want to be in a relationship- I just want to get dressed up and go out and have some fun.  I am in counseling, and I ran it by my counselor to see if it was too soon, and she said that it hasn't really been 2 1/2 months, I'd been detaching for much longer.  I first packed my bags up last May, but ended up staying for a few more months.

    I'm team Rak. You deserve to have a little fun :)  I feel you on the 1 year wait. People who don't live in that type of state can't always understand. Mine took 17 months (OUCH).

    I think I have every beat in that it took almost 2.5 yrs since serving him with divorce papers for my divorce to be finalized. First the year wait, then him being an azzhat and not signing until after CS was taken care of.

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  • I have a confession.

    Though I moved out over a month ago, I have yet to tell H that I want a divorce.

    Wednesday night I was out with my friend when I got an email on my phone about recovering my password for my other email account, and I knew instantly that H was trying to hack my email. How did I know? Because shortly after I moved out, I got a text from a friend telling me that H had called him. That's right. H was going through the phone bill and calling numbers that I had called or texted. I assume he is just violating my privacy and trying to dig up dirt because it would make him feel better if I had some sort of affair that made me want to leave, as opposed to him coming to terms with the fact that his douchebaggery is to blame. 

    I plan to call him on Monday so that we can file our taxes, and then I'm going to tell him that we need to file for divorce.

     I'm so ready to be done with this. 

    ETA: I'm posting this as a new thread.  

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  • I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.

    It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status

    & I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.

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  • imageClaireDunphy:

    I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.

    It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status

    & I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.

    This is amazing! What was your motivation? 

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  • imageLookingUp:
    imageClaireDunphy:

    I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.

    It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status

    & I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.

    This is amazing! What was your motivation? 

    My friend & I were joking about keeping track of them since she confused their names.

    Spreadsheet born.

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  • imageClaireDunphy:

    I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.

    It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status

    & I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.

    College Football Team?  Simply awesome.  LMAO!! 

  • imageClaireDunphy:
    imageLookingUp:
    imageClaireDunphy:

    I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.

    It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status

    & I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.

    This is amazing! What was your motivation? 

    My friend & I were joking about keeping track of them since she confused their names.

    Spreadsheet born.

    I love this!!

  • imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:

    I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.

    It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status

    & I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.

    College Football Team?  Simply awesome.  LMAO!! 

    Of course! I am a die-hard Seminole, but I swear, I only attract Gators. Gross!

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  • imageClaireDunphy:
    imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:

    I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.

    It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status

    & I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.

    College Football Team?  Simply awesome.  LMAO!! 

    Of course! I am a die-hard Seminole, but I swear, I only attract Gators. Gross!

    Then you wouldnt like me very much.  I am a die-hard OU Sooner fan and we beat the Noles the last 2 years.Cool

  • imagehainesherway:
    imageVaaaJeana:
    imageGhostofZeldaFitzgerald:
    imagehainesherway:

    imagerakattack:
    I have been separated for 2 1/2 months and I signed up for a match.com profile.

    Really?  Are these flame-free confessions?  lol

    Did you indicate you were separated in your Match profile?

    I don't think, given Rak's circumstances, that this is flameful at all.  


     

    Neither do I.

    I don't know her backstory.  What happened?

     

    Her stbx was crap in bed, just rolled right the hell off before she could get off all the time.

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  • imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:
    imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:

    I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.

    It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status

    & I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.

    College Football Team?  Simply awesome.  LMAO!! 

    Of course! I am a die-hard Seminole, but I swear, I only attract Gators. Gross!

    Then you wouldnt like me very much.  I am a die-hard OU Sooner fan and we beat the Noles the last 2 years.Cool

    Wellllllll....

    That's technical. I really don't hate OU that much because my family is from Oklahoma & they're such a solid program. I respect them.

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  • imageClaireDunphy:
    imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:
    imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:

    I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.

    It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status

    & I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.

    College Football Team?  Simply awesome.  LMAO!! 

    Of course! I am a die-hard Seminole, but I swear, I only attract Gators. Gross!

    Then you wouldnt like me very much.  I am a die-hard OU Sooner fan and we beat the Noles the last 2 years.Cool

    Wellllllll....

    That's technical. I really don't hate OU that much because my family is from Oklahoma & they're such a solid program. I respect them.

    Damn fine people your family.  I am originally from Tulsa!!

  • imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:
    imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:
    imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:

    I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.

    It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status

    & I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.

    College Football Team?  Simply awesome.  LMAO!! 

    Of course! I am a die-hard Seminole, but I swear, I only attract Gators. Gross!

    Then you wouldnt like me very much.  I am a die-hard OU Sooner fan and we beat the Noles the last 2 years.Cool

    Wellllllll....

    That's technical. I really don't hate OU that much because my family is from Oklahoma & they're such a solid program. I respect them.

    Damn fine people your family.  I am originally from Tulsa!!

    Really? My mom is from Tulsa. I was born in Coffeyville, KS. Planning on running the Route 66 Marathon in Tulsa this fall!

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  • I've bought a ton of shower gifts or simply birth presents for friends, family, acquaintances and I can't help but think when it's my turn to get a baby, I won't get anything. It's not about the money but when I get something from someone, the object will always remind me of the person who gave it to me so it's important to me.
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  • imageClaireDunphy:
    imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:
    imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:
    imagejm5855:
    imageClaireDunphy:

    I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.

    It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status

    & I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.

    College Football Team?  Simply awesome.  LMAO!! 

    Of course! I am a die-hard Seminole, but I swear, I only attract Gators. Gross!

    Then you wouldnt like me very much.  I am a die-hard OU Sooner fan and we beat the Noles the last 2 years.Cool

    Wellllllll....

    That's technical. I really don't hate OU that much because my family is from Oklahoma & they're such a solid program. I respect them.

    Damn fine people your family.  I am originally from Tulsa!!

    Really? My mom is from Tulsa. I was born in Coffeyville, KS. Planning on running the Route 66 Marathon in Tulsa this fall!

    Awesome! Good for you...I need to find the motivation and run a marathon.

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