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Re: Confessions! (yes, FF)
I'm on prozac and I take it at the same exact time every day to a T. This is a new thing all together...
She's a damnbitch that way lol.
Every week I check the local mugshots on the DSM Register website...keeps me grounded...hahaha. Lately I have noticed a lot of men are getting arrested for non-payment of child support...and I think that is great. Most of these guys being arrested for this also have assault, burglary, narc, etc charges as well. There is a part of me that thinks some of these idiots should be forced into vasectomy's. I know that sounds communist or harsh, but deadbeats need to be treated harshly.
Doubtful, because it's not a "work related" injury. Bring a belt and secure yourself to the john for safety instead. YWIA
I did the same thing...honestly it helped me for some reason. While I clearly wasn't ready for a relationship, I did meet a few nice guys and they gave me hope that when I was in fact ready, it would be OK.
Now that' I've been single for a year and a half...I find it SO much easier honestly. Dating is tough!!!
I'm team Rak. You deserve to have a little fun
I feel you on the 1 year wait. People who don't live in that type of state can't always understand. Mine took 17 months (OUCH).
I think I have every beat in that it took almost 2.5 yrs since serving him with divorce papers for my divorce to be finalized. First the year wait, then him being an azzhat and not signing until after CS was taken care of.
I have a confession.
Though I moved out over a month ago, I have yet to tell H that I want a divorce.
Wednesday night I was out with my friend when I got an email on my phone about recovering my password for my other email account, and I knew instantly that H was trying to hack my email. How did I know? Because shortly after I moved out, I got a text from a friend telling me that H had called him. That's right. H was going through the phone bill and calling numbers that I had called or texted. I assume he is just violating my privacy and trying to dig up dirt because it would make him feel better if I had some sort of affair that made me want to leave, as opposed to him coming to terms with the fact that his douchebaggery is to blame.
I plan to call him on Monday so that we can file our taxes, and then I'm going to tell him that we need to file for divorce.
I'm so ready to be done with this.
ETA: I'm posting this as a new thread.
I created a Google Documents Spreadsheet of all the guys I've gone out with since my divorce.
It details: Name, Photo, Age, Marital Status, Occupation, College Football Team, Kids, Where Met, 1st Date, Current Status
& I shared the spreadsheet with a few friends.
This is amazing! What was your motivation?
My friend & I were joking about keeping track of them since she confused their names.
Spreadsheet born.
College Football Team? Simply awesome. LMAO!!
I love this!!
Of course! I am a die-hard Seminole, but I swear, I only attract Gators. Gross!
Then you wouldnt like me very much. I am a die-hard OU Sooner fan and we beat the Noles the last 2 years.
Her stbx was crap in bed, just rolled right the hell off before she could get off all the time.
Wellllllll....
That's technical. I really don't hate OU that much because my family is from Oklahoma & they're such a solid program. I respect them.
Damn fine people your family. I am originally from Tulsa!!
Really? My mom is from Tulsa. I was born in Coffeyville, KS. Planning on running the Route 66 Marathon in Tulsa this fall!
Awesome! Good for you...I need to find the motivation and run a marathon.