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  • imageGRsweetpea:

    You crack me up!  I think that you and L do too much travelling to be anti-tourist.

    Touche, my friend.  

    You've exposed my not so hidden hypocrisy.  Admittedly, I'm a pretty vocal "NIMBY"ite.  This came up in a discussion of Lake MI windmills.

    We can add this to my growing "west side snobbery" file. 

  • imageGRsweetpea:
    imageDesmond&MollyJones:

    :::Debbie Downer Alert:::

    1) I have cried at work everyday this week, so far.  Maybe Friday will be better?

    2)  My dad called me at 11:50 to tell me doctors say grandpa has 1-2 days left.

    It's what I wanted.  It' what he needs.  He is mentally and emotionally miserable.  He is ready to go.  His body doesn't work anymore.  He is so unhappy.  It will be best for him to pass.

    But it makes me cry so much. 

    I can't imagine going through a major loss at the same time you're going through the hormone posioning of the first trimester. 

    Crying is okay.  It's part of the grief work that you're in the middle of.  Sending you support and wishes of comfort.

    lol.  That is so spot on.  Hormone posioning of the first trimester.  Love it.  So true.  Thanks.

  • Willa's class has had 3 weeks of cup stacking in gym class, and she came home with a catalog.  Instead of paying $13 for regulation cups, we bought 12 for $3 at Hobby Lobby.   I found out a few days ago just how competitive Jim is.  I had to remind him that his daughter was 5, and maybe he could slow down just a little. ;)  Anyhow, cup stacking is fun.
    Willa 4.6.06 and Henry 10.18.08 Camp Sinki
  • imageDesmond&MollyJones:

    :::Debbie Downer Alert:::

    1) I have cried at work everyday this week, so far.  Maybe Friday will be better?

    2)  My dad called me at 11:50 to tell me doctors say grandpa has 1-2 days left.

    It's what I wanted.  It' what he needs.  He is mentally and emotionally miserable.  He is ready to go.  His body doesn't work anymore.  He is so unhappy.  It will be best for him to pass.

    But it makes me cry so much. 

    I am so sorry, D&MJ. I hope you will be able to take sometime to be with your Grandpa. It is incredibly sad, but I hope you will be able to find peace with it.

    And, are you finding that you are more emotional this pregnancy than last? I mention it because I found this first tri to be much harder emotionally than my first tri with Henry. And I don't even have half the stuff going on that you do. Just know you aren't alone and that is a really freaking hard time and take any means you need to to get through the coming weeks. It will get better. My heart goes out to you and we are always here if you need anything. 

  • imageMrsJuliD:

    But the parody highlights why the original was so offensive.  I think that this particular parody says to the viewer to "Can you believe how outrageous this offense was?" rather than "Let's all laugh at racism!"

    Isn't there a term for that - it's not coming to me at the moment.  Like Jonathon Swift writing about how the Irish should sell their babies during the famine to highlight how crazy the attitudes toward the poor people were.

    I get the idea that making a joke out of something can take the sting out of it, sort of. I think the Daily Show and Colbert Report are often good examples of this.  Taking things too seriously can sometimes be a flaw of mine, but when I find things really offensive, I can often lose all sense of humor about them.  

    If it helps people that otherwise may not have noticed how inappropriate the ad was, then I guess.

  • Molly, it was almost exactly a year ago that my grandpa passed away.  It sounds like it was kind of a similar experience.  It sucks so, so bad.  (And now I'm getting teary just typing this.... blah!)  Anyway, it's totally okay to cry.

    *cyber hugs*

  • imageDesmond&MollyJones:
    imageGRsweetpea:
     

    I can't imagine going through a major loss at the same time you're going through the hormone posioning of the first trimester. 

    Crying is okay.  It's part of the grief work that you're in the middle of.  Sending you support and wishes of comfort.

    lol.  That is so spot on.  Hormone posioning of the first trimester.  Love it.  So true.  Thanks.

    Yes, GRsp, you have described what happens so perfectly. Filing this phrase away for future use. 

  • Damn... now that I look at my calendar, I realize that my grandpa's funeral was a year ago today.  Sad
  • imageGRsweetpea:
    Willa's class has had 3 weeks of cup stacking in gym class, and she came home with a catalog.  Instead of paying $13 for regulation cups, we bought 12 for $3 at Hobby Lobby.   I found out a few days ago just how competitive Jim is.  I had to remind him that his daughter was 5, and maybe he could slow down just a little. ;)  Anyhow, cup stacking is fun.

    I really don't know much about cup stacking at all.  But... is it just me... or does this not sound like it should be a gym class thing?  How is cup stacking fitness related?

  • imageDesmond&MollyJones:

    But it makes me cry so much. 

    Hugs, Molly.  Wishing you and your family, including your grandpa, peace during this time.  It sounds like you've been able to enjoy him and his last days as much as possible.  That takes so much strength.

  • imageKasa:

    imageGRsweetpea:
    Willa's class has had 3 weeks of cup stacking in gym class, and she came home with a catalog.  Instead of paying $13 for regulation cups, we bought 12 for $3 at Hobby Lobby.   I found out a few days ago just how competitive Jim is.  I had to remind him that his daughter was 5, and maybe he could slow down just a little. ;)  Anyhow, cup stacking is fun.

    I really don't know much about cup stacking at all.  But... is it just me... or does this not sound like it should be a gym class thing?  How is cup stacking fitness related?

    My thoughts exactly!

     

  • imageDiana Prince:
    imageKasa:

    imageGRsweetpea:
    Willa's class has had 3 weeks of cup stacking in gym class, and she came home with a catalog.  Instead of paying $13 for regulation cups, we bought 12 for $3 at Hobby Lobby.   I found out a few days ago just how competitive Jim is.  I had to remind him that his daughter was 5, and maybe he could slow down just a little. ;)  Anyhow, cup stacking is fun.

    I really don't know much about cup stacking at all.  But... is it just me... or does this not sound like it should be a gym class thing?  How is cup stacking fitness related?

    My thoughts exactly!


     

    Yup, I have the same thoughts.  It does encourage hand-eye coordination, and um... you have to move your arms fast?  The letter home from the teacher said that it's an activity that is inexpensive to practive at home. $13 is expensive for cups, but way less than baseball's mitt, ball, and bat, or basketball's ball and backboard.  Because of the socioeconomic status of most of the students, they really keep $$ in mind.  It's just a short unit, and they'll move on soon.

    For fun, watch this (starting at about 45 second mark).  She's Willa's new role model.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQTS8wMnOpM

    Willa 4.6.06 and Henry 10.18.08 Camp Sinki
  • imageKasa:
    Damn... now that I look at my calendar, I realize that my grandpa's funeral was a year ago today.  Sad

    Rough anniversary.  I'm sorry, Kasa.

    It's been 4 years, but I still have a hard time on the anniversary of my grandma's death.

    Willa 4.6.06 and Henry 10.18.08 Camp Sinki
  • imageGRsweetpea:
    imageDiana Prince:
    imageKasa:

    imageGRsweetpea:
    Willa's class has had 3 weeks of cup stacking in gym class, and she came home with a catalog.  Instead of paying $13 for regulation cups, we bought 12 for $3 at Hobby Lobby.   I found out a few days ago just how competitive Jim is.  I had to remind him that his daughter was 5, and maybe he could slow down just a little. ;)  Anyhow, cup stacking is fun.

    I really don't know much about cup stacking at all.  But... is it just me... or does this not sound like it should be a gym class thing?  How is cup stacking fitness related?

    My thoughts exactly!


     

    Yup, I have the same thoughts.  It does encourage hand-eye coordination, and um... you have to move your arms fast?  The letter home from the teacher said that it's an activity that is inexpensive to practive at home. $13 is expensive for cups, but way less than baseball's mitt, ball, and bat, or basketball's ball and backboard.  Because of the socioeconomic status of most of the students, they really keep $$ in mind.  It's just a short unit, and they'll move on soon.

    For fun, watch this (starting at about 45 second mark).  She's Willa's new role model.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQTS8wMnOpM

    Well, I suppose.  But jump ropes are cheap too.  It certainly better than TV and video games, though!

    That video clip is neat.  And, oh, Regis...

  • imageDesmond&MollyJones:

    :::Debbie Downer Alert:::

    1) I have cried at work everyday this week, so far.  Maybe Friday will be better?

    2)  My dad called me at 11:50 to tell me doctors say grandpa has 1-2 days left.

    It's what I wanted.  It' what he needs.  He is mentally and emotionally miserable.  He is ready to go.  His body doesn't work anymore.  He is so unhappy.  It will be best for him to pass.

    But it makes me cry so much. 

    1) It's okay to cry.  I hate crying at work too, but sometimes it happens and it's okay.

    2) I'm so sorry. :-(  *hugs*

  • Kasa, you're right about the jump ropes, but my lil' lady (and I suspect a lot of her friends) need that coordination building first.  Maybe cups are the gateway to jump rope? ;)
    Willa 4.6.06 and Henry 10.18.08 Camp Sinki
  • imageGRsweetpea:
    Kasa, you're right about the jump ropes, but my lil' lady (and I suspect a lot of her friends) need that coordination building first.  Maybe cups are the gateway to jump rope? ;)

    What?!  Kids aren't born being able to jump rope?! 

    Seriously, it didn't occur to me that kindergarteners wouldn't be ready.  Goes to show how much I know.

    I'll be briefly babysitting a five year old (and her baby brother) tonight.  Note to self: don't suggest jump roping as an activity.

  • imageGRsweetpea:

    imageKasa:
    Damn... now that I look at my calendar, I realize that my grandpa's funeral was a year ago today.  Sad

    Rough anniversary.  I'm sorry, Kasa.

    It's been 4 years, but I still have a hard time on the anniversary of my grandma's death.

    I was nine when my grandmother passed away, so it will be 22 years ago next month.  I still remember her around that time, so I don't think that ever goes away.  I find that now I miss her most whenever important things happen in my life.    

  • imageKasa:

    imageGRsweetpea:
    Kasa, you're right about the jump ropes, but my lil' lady (and I suspect a lot of her friends) need that coordination building first.  Maybe cups are the gateway to jump rope? ;)

    What?!  Kids aren't born being able to jump rope?! 

    Seriously, it didn't occur to me that kindergarteners wouldn't be ready.  Goes to show how much I know.

    I'll be briefly babysitting a five year old (and her baby brother) tonight.  Note to self: don't suggest jump roping as an activity.

    Or do, but have your video camera ready.  Devil

    GRSP, I'm glad Willa (and Jim) are having fun with the cup stacking.  And I didn't think about hand/eye coordination.  I also have no idea what we did for "P.E." when I was in kindergarten.  I think we just had recess and were expected to run around then.  I probably tried to sit at my desk and read.  What a nerd.

  • imageDiana Prince:
    GRSP, I'm glad Willa (and Jim) are having fun with the cup stacking.  And I didn't think about hand/eye coordination.  I also have no idea what we did for "P.E." when I was in kindergarten.  I think we just had recess and were expected to run around then.  I probably tried to sit at my desk and read.  What a nerd.

    LOL! 

    Overall, I was okay with elementary school gym class.  That is, until we started playing volleyball at some point.  And then I developed a fear of volleyballs coming in my general direction.  I have never gotten over that fear.

    Junior high gym class was a different story, though.  Shudder.

  • The gym discussion reminded me of an Andy story.  In 2nd grade, he had to stay in from recess.  He was having trouble learning how to skip and had to go practice.
  • imageMrsJuliD:
    The gym discussion reminded me of an Andy story.  In 2nd grade, he had to stay in from recess.  He was having trouble learning how to skip and had to go practice.

    He had to have remedial recess?!

     

  • Good afternoon ladies!  Noah and I hosted a playdate this morning and there were 6 kids here 2 1/2 and younger.  It was crazy and fun.  The toy box threw up in my house.  What am I doing right now???  Drinking a cup of coffee and eating a donut.  The toys will clean themselves up right???? Stick out tongue

    I talked to my doctor about my crazy 22 day long men. cycles and she has me on Progestin now to try to kick my body into a longer cycle.  I am afraid it has made me a *little* crabby.  OK, alot according to my DH.  Poor guy.  But hopefully I will be able to O again and join the preggo party.

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  • imageKasa:

    Junior high gym class was a different story, though.  Shudder.

    I've blocked out most of that, but I do remember dodgeball and fitness testing.  Ugh.

  • Mol: Hugs for you. 

    DH & I got back from a 1.5 hrs meeting with the school psych and special ed advisor. We both feel optimistic about it. The psych said that he would observe SS before bringing him in and talking to him to see what he is like in class.  

  • I am late to the game today so there is a lot to catch up on.

    The anniversary of my grandmother passing away is this month as well.  She was 92, and so ready to leave us...but everyone is right...it is hard to say good-bye.  I miss her now more than ever.  I think because she never got to see me happily married and a mommy.  She would have loved that. 

    Cup stacking sounds fun.  My DH is much like Jim.  I am sure I will have to remind him multiple times in the future that Noah is *insert age* and he does not HAVE to win. 

    BnG...I am drooling, your lunch sounded yummy.  I need to get chicken salad and strawberries stat!

    Sorry, I cannot remember anything else to comment on. 

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  • imageDeeder522:

    Mol: Hugs for you. 

    DH & I got back from a 1.5 hrs meeting with the school psych and special ed advisor. We both feel optimistic about it. The psych said that he would observe SS before bringing him in and talking to him to see what he is like in class.  

    So glad the meeting went well!!!

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  • imageMrsJuliD:
    The gym discussion reminded me of an Andy story.  In 2nd grade, he had to stay in from recess.  He was having trouble learning how to skip and had to go practice.

    This is excellent.

  • imageStargirl1975:

    I miss her now more than ever.  I think because she never got to see me happily married and a mommy.  She would have loved that. 

    I feel this way about my grandma who passed away 15 years ago.  She was in her 50's.  I still tear up ( am as I type this) when I think about her and the interactions she missed here on earth  :-(  I always think of "what might have been" if she never got sick. 

    I'm sorry about your gpa Molly.  It's hard to see a loved one go, even if it is for the best.  Cry it out.  No shame.

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  • I'm glad that meetings with professionals went well today.  I hope Deeder's SS finds ways to get motivated, and that Stargirl's cycles space out more.

    But I'm giggling at "hopefully I'll O..." because that generally does not mean ovulate. ;)  Though, both O's would be lovely for you.

    And I about fell out of my chair picturing 7 year old Andy trying to learn to skip while his class was at recess.

    Willa 4.6.06 and Henry 10.18.08 Camp Sinki
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