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Just Call Me the One Date Wonder!

I had another date last night.  It was a blind date.  M friend requested me on FB, we have several mutual friends and I checked in with two of them before going out with him to make sure they thought he was a stand up guy (they did).

We went to dinner and had a good time.  He's really funny and he's a single dad.  I could tell that he really loves his son.  He owns his own business and also owns his own house so he's successful and seems very driven.  I definitely got the vibe that he was into me because he asked about a second date before the end of this date.

Problem is, I'm just not attracted to him like that.  I can't picture kissing him and I didn't feel "that" connection.  Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever feel it.  It always seems like I go on these dates and they want to see me again, but I don't feel the same (that isn't meant to sound braggy just more of a statement of facts). 

It's fine anyways because I need to keep focusing on my studies, but the more I date the more picky it seems like I get.  No real point to this post, I am just feeling instrospective on a Monday morning, it seems.

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Re: Just Call Me the One Date Wonder!

  • I know exactly how you feel, it happens to me all the time. The good part is that you know what you're looking for and won't compromise. Just keep that in mind, and one of these days you'll meet someone that truly knocks your socks off! 
  • As my mom always says, you gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince!
  • You and me both!

    However; my date from last night was the opposite...I felt something but it was pretty clearly when we said goodbye that he didn't. It sucks as I built up anticipation in my head.

    Agh...dating is frustrating!

    The Nestie formally known as....
  • imageChasing Emmii:
    I know exactly how you feel, it happens to me all the time. The good part is that you know what you're looking for and won't compromise. Just keep that in mind, and one of these days you'll meet someone that truly knocks your socks off! 

    This exactly! I think for the right one, it'll be worth all the bad ones :) 

    **nestie formerly known as thegastons**
  • imageRedRedWine2:

    You and me both!

    However; my date from last night was the opposite...I felt something but it was pretty clearly when we said goodbye that he didn't. It sucks as I built up anticipation in my head.

    Agh...dating is frustrating!

    That makes 3 of us.  Wouldnt let it bother you Achase...probably more common than you realize.  90% or more of the 1st dates I have been on never made it to a 2nd.

  • Yeah I feel ya. I went on two dates recently where I wasn't feeling it. One maybe I could get into but I don't want to force it. Ugh!
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