Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
OMFG. Text from Stalker Guy: Happy Valentine's Day. I hope you know how loved you are.
Why me?!?!?
Re: Let.It.Goooooooooo
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
Stage 5 Clinger for sure!!
Honestly I wouldn't recommend this. As annoying as it is, it's good for her to keep tabs on him and how he's escalating. This way she'll also have any evidence should it become necessary.
You don't think she has enough evidence already? I mean he has done this several times before...she can prove it and then she can show that she finally changed her number.
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
What about blocking his number and email address?
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
I would block his number and then filter his emails, so you have proof of the emails he has sent.
For the phone it's through your service provider. AT&T charges $5 a month and you can call to set it up. Free with Verizon and its online under your privacy for your account I believe. Or just google it or search on the vzw website.
Email should be under privacy setting. You create a filter for his address. You can also google how to filter emails for yahoo for better directions.
I think she has plenty of evidence, but she still won't be able to see if he's escalating, which I think is pretty important. Honestly I'd want to know what my stalker is sending to me. It's annoying, but if it starts to get threats about physical, etc., she should know.
A police report for someone texting you sounds a bit extreme to me.
From personal experience, the police won't do much without there being a specific physical threat. I had a woman (XBF's XW) texting me 30+ times a day, threatening to ruin my life etc. The police told me that unless she said something like "I'm going to kill you" or "I'm going to beat you to a pulp" that they couldn't do anything at all. No chance of a restraining order, nothing.