Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
spent Valentines Day with (STBX)H
I haven't been around in awhile, but you may remember that I was struggling with the fact that I may have rushed my decision to leave the marriage and was really doubting myself.
I've been in therapy, etc and really took some time to be completely alone and sort my feelings - admittedly still working through that.
He and I have been on good terms for about 4-5 weeks, and have gone on two dates leading up to Valentines Day.
We're taking things one day at a time and not putting any pressure or expectations on anything. We want to move at our own pace and just do what feels right for us.
I'm really happy with where things are today, right now, so I'm staying in the moment.
Hope all is well with everyone!
Re: spent Valentines Day with (STBX)H
It was a few months into therapy alone and living on my own and being separated from him for six months, that I finally was able to grieve the death and get a hold of myself.
We've been doing well the last monthish. I know we still have a long road ahead of us, but its progress so I'll take it. Also, as you said, i'll know this time that I've given it a fair chance and given all that I can. We'll see where we end up.