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Dreams...
Hey girls, just wondering if you have vivid dreams like I do sometimes about the Ex and/or dating....
About 2 weeks ago, I had a dream I was with my exH and we were married and we were laying in bed in the morning and I was trying to initiate sex by kissing his chest and he pretended to be asleep.....I don't know how I knew he was pretending, but i did. And that is all I remember.
Then, I had a dream that his parents bought a house a few doors down from my mom and dad's......I marched to the front door and told his mom off.
Last night, I had a dream that this guy who I went out with in October (who I really thought we hit it off very well, he asked me out again, and then never followed up. I ended up contacting him and he said he met someone else and wanted to see how it went.....meanwhile I see he's got an active membership on match again) --in my dream, I was at Home Depot, ran into him and somehow we ended up back at my mom and dad's house and had a pretty physical interaction.......this morning when I woke up, I was like "NO, let me go back into that!!!"
I just wonder what goes into creating all of these dreams......
Re: Dreams...
I get them too. I've had some pretty vivid sex dreams lately where I have an orgasm in my sleep. Last week I had a dream I was giving my FWB a BJ and woke up bobbing my head into the pillow.
Certainly not as cerebral as your dreams but I have very weird ones too!
I did last night. I dreamt he beat me because my utility bill was too high. So random. He never hit me, so that was just weird. In the same dream, he ended up dying in a hotel bathroom. It was vivid enough that I texted to see if he was okay this morning.
When we were still married, I had a dream that he got a girl in my playgroup pregnant. Turns out he was having an affair. Not with her, and he didn't get anyone pregnant, but I think my subconscious picked up on signs that my conscious mind hadn't yet.
All my dreams involving my X are about him attacking me or my child... Or being in court pleading with a judge not to give him visitation.
Not fun!