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Re: A present for you
Yes.
1. she's engaged again?
2. he has a 16 yo daughter?! Just how old is this guy?
3. AND she's pregnant?!
lord help the Bump. I know it's full of crazy, but it just got a little crazier.
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This is the winning part.
I like the fact that she is marrying a Hindu who wants to wear a scottish kilt at their wedding.
Also, I swear she is like Beetlejuice. Say her name enough and she appears. I was just telling Ames this morning that some days I miss her crazy ass. Specifically what got me thinking of her was my CW is having her gender u/s. Gender vs. sex debate. DONT CAST SOCIAL STIGMAS ON YOUR UNBORN FETUS.
ETA: From her blog:
and to be even more of a hypocrite, she then turns around and uses sex/gender interchangably in her last post -
"We are definitely planning on finding out the gender, there is NO way I could wait 28 more weeks to know"
By her own argument, they are finding out the SEX, not the gender like she says. She can't even follow her own rules.
This made my day. I needed a little crazy! Love it.
As I recall, she wasnt too old to begin with- good luck with a 16 year old. Does she really expect the ex to want to help too - I had to click the blog.... glutton for punishment I am.
In stalking her further I found this:
http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/63277650.aspx
And also on the 2nd tri FFFC she made the comment, "I wouldn't dare judge". My eyes have rolled out of my head and I have fainted off my chair.
I was really hoping that it wasn't her, and then I clicked the blog...and there was Tandi.
Also I saw the post that Stees just posted a couple of weeks ago but I didn't make the connection. I guess I didn't want to fathom that she could be spawning.
updated 10.03.12
This was my first thoughts as well.
She's a whole new breed of cray-cray.
Dx: Hashimoto's Hypothyroidism After 2 years TTC & failed IUs,we have our IVF baby born 9/24/11
LO#2 aka 'Miracle Baby' Orig. EDD= 9/28 EDD moved to 10/3/13
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
I can not even wrap my head around this right now...
I need some time to reflect.
updated 10.03.12
RIGHT?!
I can't handle crazy like this on my days off.
Ok. Somebody has to call her out on her hypocrisy. Please. Anyone. Dare me enough and I might get on there and do it myself. I never really started sh!t with her, but my blood is boiling remembering how much she insulted people who she thought dared to selfishly have their own children instead of adopting. I really, really want to see her argument on why she's had a change of heart.
Also, saying she just found out she's "like a month pregnant" makes me want to punch her in the boob. Um, how about you estimate how far along you are a little better than "like a month."
Nope, not me. She drive me crazy and I can't stand her, but she's off our board. I hate the idea of her procreating, but what can ya do. Yes, she insulted people. Pretty bad. But we've called her out about a zillion times and when has she ever listened? This time wouldn't be any different.
Trust and believe I feel the frustration too, but she's really just not worth it.
What about this:
5. What names have you been thinking of? Any family names? No family names. For a boy, we loooove Gavin, Bryce, Mason. For a girl, we like Samantha, Arianna, Isabella, and Savannah. We are way more in love with our boy names than the girl names.
You could have daughters with the same name!!! ZOMGZ!
Stand up for something you believe in.
I think I would kill a b!tch.
updated 10.03.12
Sadly, I think I agree with Nooner on this one. Let her stay a safe distance away, and we can appreciate the crazy without having to deal with the crazy.
updated 10.03.12
Wow. And yet I can't seem to carry a baby.
Life is effed up.
Congrats to both my TTC buddies, Amberley18 and sb2006 on their beautiful babies!
One thing I will never understand is how some loving people who would make great parents struggle to have a baby and yet incompetent, mentally unstable people seem to get pregnant at the blink of an eye. I guess you have to think someone upstairs has a plan and everything happens for a reason.
Hugs, Meaghan.
I just threw up in my mouth a little.
I feel so sorry for the stepdaughter, and the unborn child that is no life to be born into. It makes me really sad. And even more sad when I think about people like Meaghan and DD who just want a baby so bad, and would be such great parents and role models!
This absolutely. It breaks my heart :-(.
I couldn't help but read old threads she had and there's all sorts of drama and crazy. I have to believe she's made everything in her life up. No one's life is that seriously effed. I did love how the TIP-ers called her out on it though. That she's crazy cakes and should give her baby up for adoption. Be careful Mel, you could adopt that baby!!
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Being that I've obviously never carried a baby, I probably don't know WTF I'm talking about but.... it makes me really really sad and sickened when she says things like "I don't feel attached to this thing growing inside me at all".
It just makes me shudder because I feel like most women feel attachment in some form almost immediately, and I'm just so sad for that baby. Regardless of the fact that its going to come into her crazy, unstable world, I would take some consolation in the fact that she would care for it if she actually showed interest. But she doesnt and thats just so terrible.
It sure seems cruel sometimes doesn't it. She's due a day before I was.
I read that and I literally gasped. Kevin asked what I was reading! I don't think one has to carry a child to know that there's an attachment immediately, but a heart. She clearly doesn't have one. She makes me irate :-(
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Can this girl not get along with anyone? In all her posts she talks about fighting with SO and everyone in her life basically.
I think she does't feel connected to the baby (which is horrible, I felt connected form the moment I saw the + sign) because this baby thinks she crazy and doesn't want to connect to a crazy women.