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Re: Restraining orders
yup. PIP hit the nail on the head.
My polite advise:
If you are not contacting him about an issue that concerns the child, have no contact at all with him.
So you're selling his ring and you were all neeener neener come on and buy it for your girlfriend? No wonder he got pissed off and now he wants an RO.
Unless this has to do with the child BUTT OUT. Don't contact him.
1. I would get a restraining order against you as well.
2. You need psychiatric help
3. Stop using your child as an excuse to contact him...this email had nothing to do with your child.
4. If you dont knock off the crazy your child will need counseling as well.
All of this....times a bazillion!
I keep going back and forth on feeling sorry for you because you're nuts and have difficulty functioning like an adult, and then thinking you have to be the stupidest person alive for continuing to egg on your ex and then get surprised when he threatens a RO.
Why again do you keep posting here? Everyone on these boards thinks you're insane.
This. Plus your whole "I should get a PO first" BS-Judges see right through this. I volunteered in VPO court and people were constantly trying to get POs to retaliate against one put on them and so on.
Based on what you have TOLD us in this post, no, he could not get a PO. But, we don't know the truth. If he did get one against you, you would exchange your child at a place like "Safe Place" or through some other 3rd party. you would also communicate through a 3rd party. It will make your life much harder.
The best thing to do: STOP CONTACTING HIM! Get yourself some therapy because your band-aid relationship isn't working. Dump the BF until you get your life in order, and focus on your freaking child! Dear Lord woman, it's not just about you anymore! You can't focus on how he hurt you, you have to focus on the fact that he is your child's father.
Now that I have wasted my time because your crazycake self will disregard this and continue playing the martyr, I'm going to do something more productive. Like stare into space.
I like you....I like you A LOT!