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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: FFFC
I missed these all day so I'm chiming in late.
I suggested going to lunch at Cheesecake Factory with my mom today, knowing that she would take me shopping. I got some cute stuff and some quasi-cowboy boots--yeehaw!
I know, I know. And I apologized for getting defensive and thinking it was about me....
LoB...do you forgive me? ::::giving sad puppy dog face::::
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
I know I missed the FFFC party and my confession is late, but I totally have one to share.
I got laid on Wednesday. Twice. And it was mind-blowing. I was so exhausted afterward that I slept for 13 hours the next day.
This guy is going to be an awesome fwb.
Don't worry, I didn't take it personally. I still can't believe you thought dating after 4 years was too soon lol. For a lot of people in general, it would be an eternity lol.
Really?! My vibrator can only do so much. And it doesn't take very long, so it's just kind of there when I just need to get off, which I do several times per week. But honestly my O's are much more enjoyable with oral.
ETA: Also, if the sex is really good, I don't even need an O to be satisfied. A man can just do things that a vibe can't.
I just don't understand having sex with someone without having a relationship as well. Vibrator scratches the itch. I mean, if you are hungry, your stomach will take ramen or a nice steak. Both will fill it up but I'm personally not going to eat my steak standing over the kitchen sink. Different strokes for different folks.
ETA: I'm not saying that I don't like or miss sex. I just rather have a relationship connected to the penis.
Well, you posted right after I mentioned that BF and I were talking about marriage. I wasn't sure if it was in response to that. Glad we are all good
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
You are right, different strokes. I'm just not in any place right now to be in a relationship; I plan to be single for a long time. I have the physical need for sex, but not the emotional need for a relationship. I have a high sex drive and I really don't see any reason to go without, so I'd rather have one guy on the regular than to try to be celibate and maybe having random sex with random guys.
Amen! My FWB is in China right now and I can't wait for him to get home on Sunday!
Hallelujah! We got to get it while the gettin is good!
Ha! I only had 1 successful FWB. It was a guy that I dated for 2 weeks. It was very clear that we weren't meant for dating. However, there was insane sexual chemistry. Voila, instant FWB.
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
Did you meet him on OkCupid/Match/whatever ? Now that I think about it I am pretty sure there are websites for FWB.
Pretty sure you could find someone on adultfriendfinder
I met mine at a dance club.
No, he was the brother of a co-worker. He came out for a happy hour one night and asked me out. After a few dates it was very clear that we weren't boyfriend/girlfriend material but we could tolerate each other and had crazy sexual chemistry
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04