Grudges...Hold em, or let em go?

Re: Grudges...Hold em, or let em go?

• ESDReturns member

  

  March 2012

  ReturnOfKuus:

  I don't know why people always say that holding grudges hurts the person holding the grudge.  I collect grudges like they're ceramic unicorns, and the only side-effect I've noticed is that my life is blissfully nearly f*ckery-free without the people who have pissed me off playing any kind of meaningful role.  I recommend it to anyone.
  

  I love this. I also agree.
  

  "Evolutionary game theorists...ignoring beebees on the nest since 2005"

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• srs5624 member

  March 2012

  ReturnOfKuus:

  I don't know why people always say that holding grudges hurts the person holding the grudge.  I collect grudges like they're ceramic unicorns, and the only side-effect I've noticed is that my life is blissfully nearly f*ckery-free without the people who have pissed me off playing any kind of meaningful role.  I recommend it to anyone.
  

  SweetCuppinCakes:

  I'm grudgey as f(_)ck. I don't forget sh!t and I will hold it against you until the day that you or I die. I'm like a gottdamn grudge Gollum all "MY PRECIOUS!" when I have a grudge.

  I can't decide which one I want to quote... so I'll take one of each.

  With a basket of gravy fries. And a large sweet tea.

  
  http://pandce.proboards.com/index.cgi#general

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• malibu5880

  March 2012

  I tend to hold grudges. I will tend to cut off contact with anyone who's done something unforgiveable. Case in point - former BFF screwed ex-boyfriend, while the ex and I were still together. In MY car, probably about fifteen years ago now. I've seen her twice and turned around and walked away. Am I happily married and could care less about the dbag now? Yes. Could I stand to even look her in the eye? No.

  Oh, FFS.

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• doglove member

  

  March 2012

  SweetCuppinCakes:

  I'm grudgey as f(_)ck. I don't forget sh!t and I will hold it against you until the day that you or I die. I'm like a gottdamn grudge Gollum all "MY PRECIOUS!" when I have a grudge.

  /dead.

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• Zaitel

  March 2012

  Late I know but I feel like I should say something on this and I'll go back to my lurking.

  I'm like a few other posters, I tend to forgive and forget but really depends on what is done for me to forget. Otherwise I'll still forgive you but I sure as well won't forget but if its something like one poster mention about her sister, um ya. Go ** yourself and die, don't even look my way or I will wish death upon you when I see you in person AND if you speak to me, kay, thanks.

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