Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: Dumb Dealbreakers
My REALLY dumb dealbreaker?
You have to be able to hold silverware properly. It irks me to no end when I'm on a date and the dude holds a fork like he's shoveling food.
Call me a snob, but I notice it. It will sway me.
Mine:
You smoke, you go.
I don't mind dating a gamer, but if you attend more than 2 gaming sessions a week, goodbye. I dealt with my XH having something going on 5-6 out of 7 days a week.
If you don't like parties or social events, then it won't work. I love hosting parties and hanging out with friends. I am a very social person. Again, XH would always retreat to the basement and get on his computer during parties. Not happening again.
And I will say weight to a degree. I don't mind someone a little overweight. Hell, I am by no means skinny. But if you are morbidly obese, then I just can't get into you. Weight has been a struggle my entire life so I need to make sure that whomever I end up with is willing to help me with that, not drag me down.