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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: FFFC
There was a who you would want to hang out post? Damn. I'm sad I missed this one!
Aren't you exaggerating? Are you reading my posts here? I don't post very often but you're free to go back to my last posts on this page and I dare you to find one where I do my so-called blanket statement or judge.
I also don't get hurt because I am not included in posts where you need to name someone. I am not really known on this board because I don't post much. I've got this SN since august 2010 and have less than 2,000 posts. You do the math. I also dare you to find a person on this board or on the Nest I have been mean to. Yeah, no one.
You don't know how to fight fair. You have to make personal attacks to tell me you disagree with me and that I am a b!tch for stating my opinion in this FFFC. You might as well say no wonder XH left. Then my case will be closed.
Wow, you seriously need to chill out. I'm not fighting with anyone and certainly not fighting unfairly. You don't need to say "I'm judging you" for you to be judging people. And you did care enough to point out that no one included you. I didn't call you names, just told you to stop shoving your views down people's throats because you're beating a dead horse.
Don't put words in my mouth. I've been nothing but nice to you, including helping you with your legal issues and resume this summer, so don't tell me things you want me to say so that you can say I'm fighting unfairly. I'm not an assshole who would comment on your marriage. That's just immature to suggest. Really. You're crossing a line.
Land, I honestly don't mean this in a snarky way. It seems to me that by focusing on picking apart MCC's comments you are avoiding the reasonable point that several other people have made about harping continually on one issue. You may not believe that you fall into that category, but as you pointed out, you don't post much, and yet I still know exactly how you feel about people who date shortly after separating/divorcing. I can't say that I know off of the top of my head how anyone else feels about this issue, so that is telling to me about how often you bring it up.
I honestly have no idea what you're talking about anymore so I'm going to stop.
I get what you are saying and I accept it. We all have different views and that's OK and I am aware of it. The big difference is that you and other stated the facts and sticked to them. You didn't have to make personal attacks about me to tell me you disagreed. Which MCC did. I don't know how relevant to this post it was to say that I supposedly don't get laid and that people supposedly don't like me here. She used info I shared on this board a couple months ago to make her point. It was a low blow. KWIM?
Actually I said you need to get laid, not that you didn't get laid. I said it because you're so uptight about what everyone else does. I dont know if youre getting laid or not, all i said is you could use it. I admitted it was out of line.
I also didn't say that people didn't like you. I said that you got upset when no one invited you to the love fest but it was probably because you're so judgmental. People like you, I like you, I just think you need to chill out with your soapbox. As I first said, this isn't a hill to die on.
I agree this isn't a hill to die on and I am glad you clarified. I got the hint and won't mention my views about this topic anymore.
The people down the street from us didn't buy any Girl Scout cookies from DS. Now, with most of the people on the street, I don't care, but DH is always giving them rides, giving extra tickets to sports games, etc. to them. So they can't spend $8 on a couple of packages of cookies? I know it is flamable as nobody "owes" us a cookie purchase, but wtf?