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Bump wisdom re: Trayvon Martin

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Re: Bump wisdom re: Trayvon Martin

  • imagetartaruga:
    How come it's only ever white people who say "this isn't about race!" or complain about "the race card"?

    1) most people are at least a little bit racist. On a subconscious level if nothing else.

    2) most white people who are a little bit racist are deeply uncomfortable with the fact that they could possibly be a little bit racist.

    3) this deep, but subconscious discomfort makes them try to constantly prove that they aren't racist by pretending that race doesn't exist or isn't really an issue for anyone. Non-white people who are a little bit racist don't really succumb to this, because as non-white people they constantly see and experience race even if they are kind of racist.

    That's my half-baked theory anyway :) 

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  • imageSibil:
    But, according to someone over there, stereotypes exist for a reason.  So, prison populations being different is because blacks commit more crimes.  Because they're criminals.

    This goes along well with the theory that a jury of George Zimmerman's peers will figure out exactly what happened to Trayvon Martin and do the exact right thing.

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  • imagemxolisi:

    imagetartaruga:
    How come it's only ever white people who say "this isn't about race!" or complain about "the race card"?

    1) most people are at least a little bit racist. On a subconscious level if nothing else.

    2) most white people who are a little bit racist are deeply uncomfortable with the fact that they could possibly be a little bit racist.

    3) this deep, but subconscious discomfort makes them try to constantly prove that they aren't racist by pretending that race doesn't exist or isn't really an issue for anyone. Non-white people who are a little bit racist don't really succumb to this, because as non-white people they constantly see and experience race even if they are kind of racist.

    That's my half-baked theory anyway :) 

    Reads pretty spot on, if you ask me. Well, actually I have a deck of race cards. I'm going to be shitoutofluck when they run out.

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    I have nothing to add, really.  This pic just appalled me and was hilarious at the same time.  I guess it depends on if it was intended to be ironic. 

  • In addition:

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    Glenn Beck cries better than John Boehner.  Does that make me more of a libertarian, republican, or none of the above? 

  • imagemsmerymac:

    Oh, and the new Snarky Brides occassionally tries to have political and intellectual discussions and most people are woefully misinformed. It's a big reason I started posting here - I couldn't find the kind of current event discussions I wanted because I kept having to explain to people things like, "Socialism is an economic system. Democracy is a political system. They can exist in harmony." So whatevs, I'm an elitist a$$hole.

    Oh! My point was that StephJ in that thread has a husband who is biracial. She therefore knows everything about living in a biracial world and/or what it is like to be black. I once had a discussion about how Obama, while, yes, technically biracial, is percieved to be a "black man" because race is a societal construct more than a physical construct. Which Obama himself has said - since society has viewed him as black, he considers himself "black." But, you know, her husband feels equally black and white and is comfortable with white people, so anecdotes FTW! Basically she, BlueEyed and Maratea have completely different political beliefs than I do and that's all they see me as - someone whose beliefs they can't comprehend.

    Also, just connecting the dots. I've met Steph+J, at least I think I have. That's why dawnmarie was connecting me to her about older MSP Knotties. I remember Steph having a biracial fiance too. What I remember most, if I'm right is her wedding venue and that they had board games.

    I can only imagine what they're chatting about now. 

     

     



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  • imageEloiseWeenieSkipperdee:
    I thought this would link to my BMB (Oct 11).  I've stopped replying because I just keep getting more angry every time I type a response. Apparently Trayvon's death is a popular UO.

    Ha, that is what I thought it was going to be too. 

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  • imageSMorriso:
    imagemxolisi:

    imagetartaruga:
    How come it's only ever white people who say "this isn't about race!" or complain about "the race card"?

    1) most people are at least a little bit racist. On a subconscious level if nothing else.

    2) most white people who are a little bit racist are deeply uncomfortable with the fact that they could possibly be a little bit racist.

    3) this deep, but subconscious discomfort makes them try to constantly prove that they aren't racist by pretending that race doesn't exist or isn't really an issue for anyone. Non-white people who are a little bit racist don't really succumb to this, because as non-white people they constantly see and experience race even if they are kind of racist.

    That's my half-baked theory anyway :) 

    Reads pretty spot on, if you ask me. Well, actually I have a deck of race cards. I'm going to be shitoutofluck when they run out.

    dev - link?

    OH, just a new responder and spewer of stupidity in the newer post that Jermy's posted.

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    imageEloiseWeenieSkipperdee:
    I thought this would link to my BMB (Oct 11).  I've stopped replying because I just keep getting more angry every time I type a response. Apparently Trayvon's death is a popular UO.

    Ha, that is what I thought it was going to be too. 

    It came up on Dec. '11, too (the UO thread), but hasn't gone anywhere. 

  • mery, ffs. I was joking. Me saying my H was half black was the equivalent of you taking about how you knew about racism because you live in a diverse community. It was intentionally eye-roll worthy. But we all know you're way smarter than the idiots on SB. Trust me, no one misses you either. I'll say up front this is a P&R, but I needed to at least respond to that. Because, of course, I have no clue what it feels like to be a victim of racism. I'm well aware of that. But at the same time, just because I'm white doesn't mean I have zero experience with prejudice. eta: Smo, nope. no board games at my wedding.
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  • imageSteph+J:
    mery, ffs. I was joking. Me saying my H was half black was the equivalent of you taking about how you knew about racism because you live in a diverse community. It was intentionally eye-roll worthy. But we all know you're way smarter than the idiots on SB. Trust me, no one misses you either. I'll say up front this is a P&R, but I needed to at least respond to that. Because, of course, I have no clue what it feels like to be a victim of racism. I'm well aware of that. But at the same time, just because I'm white doesn't mean I have zero experience with prejudice. eta: Smo, nope. no board games at my wedding.

    Well aren't you just lovely.

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  • I have read the referenced posts and I have some questions for the wise women here:

    1) Where is this bubble this Tara creature lives in where Hoodie=Thug? Now I freely admit I'm about as far away from a fashionista as one can get without joining a religion that advocates some sort of interesting headgear, but isn't the current market for Hoodies basically the entire under 80-year-old market (and that is negated for ex-coaches and Hip Grannies)? I'm as middle class, privileged-white, early middle-aged as you can get and I can't think of anyone I know in that market segment that doesn't own a Hoodie. My pushing 70-year old, retired Minister Aunt has several. And if I was walking to the store (or home from a store), in FL, in the rain, I'd probably be wearing the only Hoodie I own, and even with the hood up. Am I a thug and just don't realize it?

    2) Did anyone else notice the "raped by taxes" comment buried in the mess by another poster? What amount does one need to pay in taxes in order for it to be deemed "rape"? And does the Taxman at least use protection to avoid future little deductions?

    3) What is the break even point on number of kids where paying for catastrophic health insurance becomes the less risky option for the three-uninsured-babies-in-three-years lady? 

    4) And most importantly, where would one obtain a TARDIS cookie jar?

     

  • imageVelvetshady:

     

    4) And most importantly, where would one obtain a TARDIS cookie jar?

     

    Biggity bam.

    http://www.amazon.com/Doctor-Who-Tardis-Cookie-Kitchen/dp/B000VQZOLS/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1333104445&sr=8-1

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