Trouble in Paradise
imoan
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Mommy217-whatever
I just wanted you to know that you're a damned fool if you stay in that "marriage" (note the quotations, because your marriage is a fooking sham).
And I don't care if you don't want me to bash your decisions. Your decisions NEED bashing because they were flat out stupid.
Make a GOOD decision for once and get away from that lying, cheating scumbag.
Otherwise, you deserve all the hardships that come your way. Because he wont stop cheating. he wont stop lying. You basically just told him that anything he does is acceptable.
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
Re: Mommy217-whatever
I saw the post before the dd--were there any responses?
And yeah, it was boring so I skipped to the end where she was like "My H slept with someone else and lied. I don't want to divorce or separate. What now?"
Uh, I guess get used to being a doormat? Cause imoan is right that he's not going to stop any time soon.
His charms or something.
At the end, the message was "My H cheats, lies and what I ASSUME is beats me as his azz ended up in jail... but I will not divorce him... so now it's YOUR job to tell me how to make this magically all better. And you better not question my decisions".
Azzhole.
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
Yeah, I saw that. I was wondering what she wanted from us since it was obvious she knew exactly what to do. I hope she will realize that he is not worth her time and even if she feels like she doesn't deserve any better, her daughter certainly does.
It looks like she posted and DD'd on SO too: http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64801579.aspx
I was typing my response when she DD'ed. She wanted us to tell her how to trust that a$$wipe? When he had a history of cheating on her for their entire marriage? Really?
I hope you get some individual therapy Mommy217.
There is nothing Internet strangers can do to fix a lying, cheating & abusive scum-bucket. He has to want to change or you have to get some self preservation in your skull & bail.
He has no incentive to change. He gets off on being a manipulative jerk that lays his hands on a woman. He is enjoying his current situation & has no reason to change his ways because he is coasting like a mofoe. It's easy for this to continue.
So you don't want to leave him, but you don't want to hear rational alternatives to the shythole that you are currently waist-deep in? Who do you think we are, Mommy217, miracle workers? You are asking a lot.
What you should do is get therapy & learn to love/respect/honor yourself. Dump the steaming pile of cow dung & live your life free of that shyt. FFS.