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So, in addition to the father of 3
For the past 2 days or so, I've been emailing/texting a 39 yo, no kids, never been married, seems to have a good job, and he's really funny. Super dry sense of humor, was making fun of my kickball team. But he hasn't actually asked to meet up yet. Should I just ask if he wants to meet up for drinks?
ETA- as soon as I posted, I realized that two days is really not that long, lol. So, how long do you usually talk to a guy before meeting? I think I'd rather meet sooner, than emailing/texting forever and then finding there's no chemistry, right?
The day I left was just my beginning.
Re: So, in addition to the father of 3
If a guy doesn't ask me out within 3-5 emails and I'm really interested in him, I'll suggest it. I'm not a huge fan of emailing back and forth into infinity. And if he wants to "text first"... run. Those usually go no where.
I've had guys ask me to text and I say, "I don't really find that texting is a good way to get to know someone, I'd rather meet in person" and then you never hear from them! lol... I'll really never understand what men get out of endless texting.