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Do you find it difficult to post rather than lurk as a reg on other boards?

I lurk on ML and P&CE but feel like a dufus trying to start posting. Do you do an intro post? Do you just start posting and hope people don't view you as the weirdo that walks up to a group of friends in a bar and starts laughing and shooting the shiit? It's such a stupid thing to overthink, but I do so I just lurk.

It's just so cozy knowing the feel of your own board!

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Re: Do you find it difficult to post rather than lurk as a reg on other boards?

  • Always lurk before you post, and you should figure out what's standard.  Some boards require intros, others don't.  Generally, for P&CE, you should just jump in.  

    I don't read ML, so I have no idea what's standard there.

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  • I lurk on MM and I did intro on starting over. I just lost interest there. I'm never leaving this board and you can't make me!! 
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  • I lurk for a bit and then just start posting without doing an into. I hope no one thinks I'm a weirdo. LOL.
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  • imageSibil:

    Always lurk before you post, and you should figure out what's standard.  Some boards require intros, others don't.  Generally, for P&CE, you should just jump in.  

    I don't read ML, so I have no idea what's standard there.

    I've lurked on P&CE for a few years now and recently (the past year) ML. I should be more mindful of intro posts and what not, I usually just skim for interesting topics then come back here. But it is so slow here ( I know, change it if you don't like it but who wants to be the only one posting constantly? ) that I just keep venturing over to take a glance.

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  • Since P&CE is my home, I say quit lurking and start posting!

    A good way to intro is to start a thread, but not an intro thread, about a good topic. 

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    Since P&CE is my home, I say quit lurking and start posting!

    A good way to intro is to start a thread, but not an intro thread, about a good topic. 

    Good idea! Most news headlines as of late make me want to shake someone, throw my computer, etc.

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  • Just make sure you indicate why you're posting.  You don't want to show up with something that enrages you and have us all thinking you agree :)

    Just, please, avoid the mommy wars.  I'm sick of those posts.  I've barely posted this week b/c of it. 

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  • I feel the same exact way.

    I lurk all the time on MM and did an intro with the old SN, but feel weird posting now. I always find myself reading other boards, hitting reply and then remembering I'm not a 'reg' there.

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  • I've done on an intro on the boards I post on, I think. I lurk/post on H&F, here and then on TB I'm on BOTB, MF(obvs.) and TTGP.
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  • I post on MM sometimes. I very rarely post on P&CE even though I'm a politics junkie. Something put me off there once, a really long time ago, and I only check it maybe once a week. 

    Really though, I look at it as all boards are the nest (as they say on TIP), and if I'm really bored, I'll read all over the place and post where I want. I'm not into ML though, I don't get all the friendships/inside jokes. 

    I've seen a lot of military surprise homecomings. It wouldn't work on me. I always have my back to the corner and my face to the door. Looking for terrorists, criminals, various other threats, and husbands.
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    Just make sure you indicate why you're posting.  You don't want to show up with something that enrages you and have us all thinking you agree :)

    Just, please, avoid the mommy wars.  I'm sick of those posts.  I've barely posted this week b/c of it. 

    I want to slam my face into a wall just browsing through the breast vs bottle, working vs. sahm posts. OMFG. This shiit is EVERYWHERE. It is stupid. Period.

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  • I intro'd on ML and then slooowly eased my way in.  Sometimes I will randomly comment on P&CE.  I lurk on MM but really have no desire to post there.  Same goes for TIP.  I used to lurk on F&B but that got really boring after a while.
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  • Once in a while I leave a drive by response to a thread on another board but I feel like such a weirdo showing up without doing an intro. and having all this MN stuff in my signature.
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  • I post here, and occasionally on Pets and H&F. Sometimes I lurk on other random boards, but I consider here my "home" : ) I feel most comfortable with the ladies here.
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  • I post here and on NBC, but here WAY more. I am not quite "in" with the NBC crowd yet. But I love lurking on P&CE and TIP. I don't have the cojones to man up and post on those boards yet. But I love them.  

    And Lemon, if you ever leave us, I may cry. True story.  

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    And Lemon, if you ever leave us, I may cry. True story.  

    I'm using the "My brother is in the military so I'm staying as a sibling" line. And I work for AAFES. That's DOD employee, right?

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    And Lemon, if you ever leave us, I may cry. True story.  

    I'm using the "My brother is in the military so I'm staying as a sibling" line. And I work for AAFES. That's DOD employee, right?

    Works for me...  

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  • imageLemonLover33:
    imageBrandienee85:
     

    And Lemon, if you ever leave us, I may cry. True story.  

    I'm using the "My brother is in the military so I'm staying as a sibling" line. And I work for AAFES. That's DOD employee, right?

    Bahah. Styme has no military affiliation other than living in a military town, Mandy(when she's around) isn't affiliated, I mean her DH is a DoD Contractor but yeah, we don't so much care around these parts sweetie. You're always welcome.

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