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am I racist?

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Re: am I racist?

  • imageswimbikepuke:

    imageSibil:
    imagePB1980:
    Sometimes when I see a friend or someone of a different ethnic persuasion, I get a craving for their home country's food. Is that racist?
    I wish I had Indian friends whose moms would cook for me.

    DH's boss is Indian and invited us over for dinner to his house.  They served Indian food and I thought it was awesome.  Then I saw the take out containers in the kitchen.  I felt cheated.  Racist? 

    Not racist. In fact, that would make me happy. I can order Indian takeout anytime. I couldn't invite myself over for dinner to an Indian family's house anytime.  

  • imagemarie427:
    imageswimbikepuke:

    imageSibil:
    imagePB1980:
    Sometimes when I see a friend or someone of a different ethnic persuasion, I get a craving for their home country's food. Is that racist?
    I wish I had Indian friends whose moms would cook for me.

    DH's boss is Indian and invited us over for dinner to his house.  They served Indian food and I thought it was awesome.  Then I saw the take out containers in the kitchen.  I felt cheated.  Racist? 

    Not racist. In fact, that would make me happy. I can order Indian takeout anytime. I couldn't invite myself over for dinner to an Indian family's house anytime.  

    Guess who's now going to order takeout Indian for dinner.  It's not awesome, but it's the best Honolulu has to offer.
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  • imageDylanite:
    Perhaps s/o worthy, but are there any accurate racial stereotypes?

    I think stereotypes are based on truths, but not everyone fits into a stereotype.

    I would say most people are racist, but do not base their life on being racist, if that makes sense. My grandpa always made this statement, and I never knew what it meant til I was in high school, "birds of the same feather, flock together." 

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  • image2Vermont:

    Ok, so the student I am working with now likes to watch videos of babies crying (in addition to other things).  Do you think I should show her your siggie?  lol

    ETA:  I just found the longer version...it gives you a different idea of what was going on there.

    Ok, I need to see that, please!

  • One time about 15 years ago a friend and I were lost in a sort of sketchy neighborhood* of Denver, looking for a friends apartment building. I said in a snap way, "let's look for an old white lady and ask for directions." My friend looked at me harshly and I re-evaluated my statement and said, "let's look for an old lady and ask for directions." 

    I did re-consider my prejudice of race after that incident. But I think i clearly have prejudice against age and gender.

    *sort of sketchy in that it was a downtown city neighborhood and we were suburban high school girls. I don't think it was really that sketchy. We were just out of our familiar territory.  

    I'm sure I make racial assuptions. I do think everyone does. I like to think I do a little better than most. I try.  

  • imagemominatrix:

    imageSibil:
    imagePB1980:
    Sometimes when I see a friend or someone of a different ethnic persuasion, I get a craving for their home country's food. Is that racist?
    I wish I had Indian friends whose moms would cook for me.

    ...one of the best meals I ever had was potluck after services at a Sikh temple.

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    It would be bad to go back just for the food, right?

    Last year I lived in an apartment building and was invited to an end of Ramadan feast by a lovely muslim couple who lived a few doors down. Pretty much the entire building showed up to partake and the food was out of this world delicious. And even with the 25 or so people there, there was so much we each got a huge tupperware container of leftovers. 

    So, if you're ever invited to celebrate the end of Ramadan, say yes!

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  • imagesandsonik:
    image2Vermont:

    Ok, so the student I am working with now likes to watch videos of babies crying (in addition to other things).  Do you think I should show her your siggie?  lol

    ETA:  I just found the longer version...it gives you a different idea of what was going on there.

    Ok, I need to see that, please!

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMIhL63KPxw

    It looks to me like this baby was playing with the cat and the cat wasn't really playing along.  In fact, it looks like the cat was biting him.  The baby seems to be doing a combination of laughing and crying.  After what looks like the cat is biting at the baby, the baby hits the cat. 

     

     

    And so I say to you, you are Peter, and upon this Rock I will build my Church, and the gates of Hell shall not prevail against it.
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