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Do you regret your wedding dress choice? (POLL)

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Re: Do you regret your wedding dress choice? (POLL)

  • This is a dumb poll, I was just curious. When I ordered my dress I obviously thought it was perfect. But it never fit quite right and when I look at pictures I now realize that a different cut would have been much more becoming... I regret my choice to go with a trendy cut (mermaid) instead of traditional (dropped waist).

     

  • While I would choose a different dress NOW, because I got married 9 years ago and am now 40, I loved my dress and voted for option one.
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  • imagelaptopprancer:
    While I would choose a different dress NOW, because I got married 9 years ago and am now 40, I loved my dress and voted for option one.

    I agree, although 4 years and 30 for me. I loved my dress then and still love it now, but I'd have to try it on again and see if I'd love it if my wedding were today. It was a very slim silhouette and I'm not sure I'd love the tummy area anymore.

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  • I didn't love my dress, but it was what I could afford at the time. If I got married today, almost ten years later, I would probably have a larger budget to work with, but I'm still not sure how much more I would want to spend on a dress. I see beautiful dresses all the time that I think would be nice to get married in, but I don't know if I could realistically spend what they cost without feeling a little guilty.
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  • I voted yes I still love it.  I just wish I had tried on more dresses- or that Say Yes to the Dress existed when I got married, haha.

    I bought the 2nd dress I tried on but I also knew exactly what I wanted going in.  I love watching Say Yes to the Dress and seeing all of these dresses that look fabulous on the ladies that I would have never considered.

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  • imageanna7602:
    I didn't love my dress, but it was what I could afford at the time. If I got married today, almost ten years later, I would probably have a larger budget to work with, but I'm still not sure how much more I would want to spend on a dress. I see beautiful dresses all the time that I think would be nice to get married in, but I don't know if I could realistically spend what they cost without feeling a little guilty.

    I loved my dress, but I agree with the above. I think the silhouette worked for the formality of my wedding, but sometimes I wish I had gone with something a bit more unique. Honestly, the same goes for my wedding itself. I loved it- but there are so many different styles and ideas out there that I wish I could have like 10 different weddings, ha.

  • I still 100% love my dress but I have only been married for a little over 2 years. But my dress was not a "wedding dress", it was this...

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  • I had a very simple sheath dress, but I also had a very simple wedding. I still sort of wish I got a fancy dress.
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  • imageJoanis018:

    I voted yes I still love it.  I just wish I had tried on more dresses- or that Say Yes to the Dress existed when I got married, haha.

    I bought the 2nd dress I tried on but I also knew exactly what I wanted going in.  I love watching Say Yes to the Dress and seeing all of these dresses that look fabulous on the ladies that I would have never considered.

    This exactly. 

    My sister is getting married in October and she picked a modified slim a line lace dress, and I'm kind of jealous!

    I can't say that I wouldn't have looked ridiculous in something like that, but I wish I had at least tried something like it on, so I wouldn't have these what ifs now. 

  • Mine was ivory and I wish I would have bought the white one that I tried on right before mine. It was a better silohuette on me and I kick myself every time I see the picture of me in it (mom was camera happy).

     

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    I regret that I caved in to pressure and bought a dress AT ALL.

    I ended up wearing a boring-ass white dress like every other bride. Which is SO not me.

    I regret every single concession to tradition that I made.

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  • I loved and still love my dress (I got married almost 6 years ago).

    My only regret is that I wish I had it taken in at the waist more.  I knew it was loose around the waist, but I wanted room to be able to chow down at my wedding since the food we picked was so delicious.  However, I was so hopped up on adrenaline that day, I had no appetite and barely ate anything.  So yeah I wish I had taken it in more, so that it would have given me more of a shape.

  • I loved my dress. However, I was so stressed out before my wedding I lost 6 pounds and it was a little loose. It happened after final alterations were done (like 2 weeks before). It wasn't on purpose...I was SO afraid I wouldn't fit into it (bad dreams about it) and I lost a little too much weight. I loved my dress, LOVE LOVE, and my H loved it too. I just wish I was more careful. It was supposed to be a trumpet style and it turned into more of a sheath.
  • I did/do love my dress.  But with the style I wanted/got (fit & flare) there wasn't really much of a selection in my area at the time.  So had it been now they are much more prevalent & I probably would have found another one if I had more of a choice. 
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  • I loved my dress and still do! I only got married 10 months ago though so if I disliked it already that would be pretty bad. I was obsessed with the fact that it had pockets although I didn't have anything in them. I just wanted to have them!

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  • I actually just picked up my dress last night.  While I love my dress, I wish now that I had waited to buy it and look around a little bit more.  The day after I ordered it we decided to change our wedding from this September to next spring so we would have more time.  I would not have ordered it when I did if I had known we were going to change the date.  I have more time to lose weight now and kind of have to stop at a certain point or my dress won't be able to be altered.  It fits perfectly right now and is a classic style and very flattering.

    I hope that I don't look back and regret it. I've stopped looking at dresses because I don't want to find something that I like better.

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  • I got married 3 years ago, so it hasn't been that long. But I saw a pic of my dress on the internet, ordered it into a store, tried it on and was instantly in love. I still LOVE my dress and would wear it again in a heartbeat. The only thing I didn't like... I'm slightly larger chested, and when I went for all my fittings, it was a smidge loose on top. No big deal, I was going to use some fabric tape to keep everything together. Well, the seamstress decided to take in the top a bit more for me before I picked it up. It ended up being too tight. And every which way I danced, particularly when I danced with my dad (we danced to a fast song), my chest was almost out. Like all out. And in some of my pics it just looks ridiculous. So I was kind of annoyed about that. But I loved the look of my dress. The bottom half was a platinum color, so it was just enough different and pretty that it was perfect for me. 
  • I don't regret my dress choice for a second, but if I were getting married now I would 100% choose something different. Maybe a lace sheath?
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  • imageJoanis018:

    I voted yes I still love it.  I just wish I had tried on more dresses- or that Say Yes to the Dress existed when I got married, haha.

    I bought the 2nd dress I tried on but I also knew exactly what I wanted going in.  I love watching Say Yes to the Dress and seeing all of these dresses that look fabulous on the ladies that I would have never considered.

    I'm along these lines, I voted for it was fine.

    I did/do love my dress but at the same time, I think if I'd looked more, I would have found something I loved just as much if not more.  Plus my alteratinoist never got the bust altered like I'd hoped it'd fit

  • I really didn't have a choice in the matter.  I ordered my first dress online and it never came in.  Eleven days before my wedding, I bought a sample that fit and was reasonably close to what I wanted.  It was close to what I had in mind (ballgown, heavy beading, longish train - ha, can you tell I got married 6 years ago?), but the neckline and beading weren't quite what I would have picked.  It was still really pretty, though.
  • imagelaptopprancer:
    While I would choose a different dress NOW, because I got married 9 years ago and am now 40, I loved my dress and voted for option one.

    exactly (down to the time and age)

  • I loved my dress. But initially I had thought i would just get a nice designer dress and not a wedding dress per se. Then I got sucked into the whole "wedding" thing and ended up with an actual wedding dress. It was gorgeous and looked great on me. But I think I would go with a non wedding dress if I did it again.

    Cause then I'd get to wear it again. :)

  • I won it at a bridal show, so it was free. I didn't try on any others because I didn't want to take the chance of not liking my free one and we couldn't really afford to spend a lot on a dress (6 years ago). It was a beautiful dress, but not one I would have picked out myself. Plus, I got a stomach bug right before my wedding, and lost 5 lbs, so it didn't fit right. But I still love it. I just wish I had the experience of trying on wedding dresses.
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  • imageWitchys_Woman:

    I still 100% love my dress but I have only been married for a little over 2 years. But my dress was not a "wedding dress", it was this...

    That is a fabulous dress! I am lusting after it.  Did you design it?

  • I don't regret it but I would choose something else if I were just now getting married. It's been 8yrs and looking back it was me, but my style has changed a bit since then.
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  • I really liked my dress and think it was perfect for where we got married.

    I got married in 2007, and it maybe looks a bit 2007 to me now, but that's okay.  I think it is a very classic dress so I don't think I'll ever look back and cringe?

    But since I got married, I have seen a few dresses that I would have LOVED to have.  

    This one, for example, makes me drool:

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    But on the other hand, it wouldn't have fit our venue, so it is okay that it didn't exist when I got married :)

  • I picked something simple (a-line, organza, totally plain on the front and layers of organza down the back, only a teensy bit of embellishment in beads along the edges of the layers). So, perfectly fine. Fine is how I always think of it. 

    I wanted something simple and not too trendy (recognizing that nothing is really truly timeless, but just not something super, noticeable trendy). So it fit the bill.

    If I were doing it now? I'd get something dramatic. Not big and puffy dramatic, but, like, that dress we all passed over because it was stunning but too risky. Something unique (for real unique - not just with pick ups in a different place) and with memorable features. Not highly embellished but something that used fabric really creatively.

    (But, I owned a bridal boutique so my opinion is probably a *tad* skewed watching brides choose the same dresses over and over!) 

  • I got married almost 6 years ago and loved my dress and still do. However I wish DH would have expressed his opinion about not wanting me to sell the dress, I got the dress altered (hemmed) in a way that could be let out so I could sell it to someone taller and it added a little fullness to the skirt. After the wedding when I got the dress cleaned to sell, DH said he doesn't want me to sell the dress.

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  • I looooooved my dress. I wanted something very simple and elegant: strapless, a-line, with a sweep train. I ended up choosing a Jessica McClintock that fit that description, with a floral lace overlay and a lace ruffle along the bottom hem. I got so many compliments on it. even better, it was a discontinued style, so it only cost $215 after tax and shipping! even with alterations it was less than $300. I was so glad I didn't spend a bunch of money on a dress I only wore once (and may wear again if I ever do a TTD). also, it was an outdoor wedding, so I was very glad I didn't have to "worry" about my dress the whole day. when it got a small rip in the bottom after getting hung in the heel of my shoe, I said, "oh well, it's only $200 and I'm only wearing it the once!" I didn't entertain any notions of my future daughter wearing it for her wedding day since I'm sure any child of mine will want a dress of her own.
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  • image~NB~:

    I regret that I caved in to pressure and bought a dress AT ALL.

    I ended up wearing a boring-ass white dress like every other bride. Which is SO not me.

    I regret every single concession to tradition that I made.

    Ditto the bolded part. I made a lot of concessions to tradition because everyone thought my ideas were too out there and I have a lot of regrets about my wedding. It kind of tarnishes the day for me. 

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