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***, it's boring. i'm starting a fire.
I know GOZ is anxious for a trainwreck. Anybody else want free reign to flame? I've got a couple.
- i created a fake FB page so I could stalk XH a several weeks ago. I need proof for the church that he's banging someone else or I can't be officially divorced in their eyes. I deleted the page and didn't contact him, but I stalked the sht out of him for a day and a half.
- an additional secret motive for my move to houston is that the men there are gorgeous and I want a husband. I can handle being single, fine, but I hate it.
- ooh, one more! i had a date wednesday night. I worked instead and I didnt even tell him. We sort of mutually stood each other up.
are those flameworthy? Anybody?
Re: ***, it's boring. i'm starting a fire.
I won't flame you for the XH stalking. If you need proof, go for it.
Also, a little fantasy about a fun life once this is over is ok. No flames here.
yeah, I guess I felt bad about them until I said them out loud. Oh well :P
Oops, I missed that one. Yeah, that's kind of crappy to do.
I think she GBCSO and moved to Germany
I just about spit my tea out! I was wondering the same thing the other day.
I was also thinking about her but haven't been around enough to know if I was just missing her or if she said "alvederzane"
Ex stalking isn't so stalkerish when its for proof for something like that!
And nothing wrong witth moving where there are single good-looking men!
But why'd you stand the guy up?? How do you know he stood you up? Couldn't you just let him know you weren't coming?
I think we've officially scared all the flameworthy people away
I don't think Liubot will be back this time, bc in achase's words "we're a bunch of meanies" ... still dying over that comment
We were supposed to go out last week, and I had to cancel then, but I said let's move everything to next week. In between then and last night, though, he practically stalked me at work (coming in to the bar to see the bartender- legalized stalking for all creepos) and I realized I just didn't want to go out with him anymore. When he texted me and said "are we still on for tomorrow," i just didn't get around to replying...
Other than standing that dude up, I'm cool with all of this.
And I agree. I don't think we'll see Liubot/Flitty again. I'm a little sad about Jaksmom. I didn't agree with her lifeplan AT ALL, but I didn't think she was stark raving mad. Had she hung around, I think we might have talked some sense into her.
So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.
Agreed. Although you'd think that at some point people would just, oh I dunno, stop posting things they don't want people to know?! Maybe I'm not a big attention whore (who am I kidding on that one?) but if I know people will freak out at me, I would just withhold that info.
And you're the bartender? Like he was coming in, where you work?
Oh, I totally get this, and now approve of standing him up. It maybe wasn't the best way to handle it but dating is hard. Oh well!
I hope he doesn't come back to your work!!
Your explanation makes it a little less flameworthy. Although you could have just responded to his text and said you decided that you weren't interested.
Yeah, I liked her too. Im hoping she's just busy, she didn't formally call us all stuck up bi+ches or tell us we "have [our] heads up [our] a$ses" like our other favorite, lol
I don't think she was crazy either, except for when she confessed she was sending racy pics and videos halfway around the world to a man she wasn't even in a real relationship with.
i'm TRYING to make it interesting!
Feel free to flame me for posting a disappointing flame post.
I think I just did, but my flame was disappointing as well... lol
Houston guys aren't nearly as hot and plentiful as Austin guys.
Just sayin'.
Kipper I typically LMAO at your posts but this is kinda weak.
I am really hoping tomorrow peeps starting fessing up to *** so we can have an all out brawl...errr..i mean a good healthy debate. Where is nyg&p when you need her? I am only kidding nyg&p...lol
I have a feeling she GBCSO as well
lmao, what's happening to us?!
HAHAHAHAH what? Um... isn't that just a nicer way of saying stand up?
No, I didn't stand him up, I just "lapsed in communication that led to canceled plans"... that he didn't know about.
I love this.
i cancelled the date and didnt tell him.