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Relationship Advise

nkpodinkpodi
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Originally when we first started talking she told me she didn't want a relationship but i still pursued it. A couple of weeks into the relationship she tried smoking weed twice and told me about it and i spazzed letting her know I'm not for it and the convo led to me confessing i smashed 2 shawties when we were still talking and when i told her this she went on to inform me that she was talking to someone else while talking to me and she would sleep at the niggas room and *** but she swore up and down that nothing happened between em so I said u fucked up I fucked up so we squashed it. This was mid October. Christmas eve we were at my sisters house and she had my phone so I took hers like playing around like I was going to go through it and she started acting funny about the whole thing so I said ** it. Christmas day we came to my moms place and she gave me her phone to charge it so I went up to charge it and then I was like u know what ** this imma look through the phone. I found out niggas was asking her if she wanted to smoke and she was still chilling with the one dude so o spazzed out on her and almost broke up with her but she swore up and down that she and the dude was just friends and she was sorry about smoking that she was just stressed and tired blah blah blah and that's why and she only smoked twice since the last time and all this ***. I told her imma give her one last try and *** has been good until this weekend.   On Friday when we arrived I told my *** Henry to keep his ears open about the shawty cause I know the niggas up there wouldn't tell me directly but would talk about it behind my back and *** so Friday I went to see shawty and everything was good. Saturday I was still with shawty and the *** Henry hit me up saying niggas are saying how people dont even know she gotta dude and what not so he wanted me to come out to the party so I could show face. So I came out to the first party and at first people started looking but then it stopped and then we left that party and went to the party at the sigma house(the dudes she is cool with. Me and Vince met two of em the last time we went up but supposingly the other dude tried talking to her but she still be chilling with em) anyway when we got to the party the one *** I met came up to shack my hand but the other dude the one that tried talking to her gave me a weird ass look and I mean mugged right back like he was gonna do something. At that point niggas and bitches started staring at me all fucked up and what not so I said cool imma give ya a show to look at so I kissed her right in front the *** and immediately he walked away so I did it again. Then we were leaving and some shawties tried starting *** with her over some dumb *** so we just left and I told her straight up like wtf was up with the niggas staring and she said she dunno and she hated how they acted like she wasn't allowed to bring her man up and ***. So we squashed that ***. Today when leaving the nigha Henry said yo i heard some *** about the shawty so i asked and he said 1) she always be chilling with the sigma niggas and that i know of cause her best friends are mad cool with them. But he said whenever the other dudes enter the house she always gets up and leave. 2) She always be chilling with some *** with dreads which I do not know about. Then the dude Henry then said to be 100% honest with you this is what I said about the shawty and the dude with dreads. One morning one of the niggas was walking down and saw them coming outta his crib and his shawty was walking up and caught em and started spazzing and ***. So I asked shawty about the dude and she said they don't have *** going on he tried talking to her last semester but she didn't let him and they've chilled as a group and that is about it. And then I told her what heard and she has been denying it up and down so idk what to do
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