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Name Change ?

Did anyone just mail the information in to the SS office or did everyone go in?!
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  • I just went in!  It only took about 5 minutes; I was surprised.  You'll need to take your certified marriage license with you.  I got my new SS card in the mail a week and a half later!
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  • Mona8Mona8 member
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    I went in because I didn't feel comfortable mailing the important documents they require... and the turn-around time is faster if you go in.
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  • I mailed mine in. I did not wanna deal with people :) And i'm glad I did. It went pretty smooth.

     

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  • I went it, there was no line and it was super quick!!  Much better than SOS
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  • I went in to do my name change.

     I didn't want to have to mail in our marriage license and hope that they got it back in time (or at all) to change my name at other places. It took about 5 minutes for them to do at the SS office I went to...they just took a copy of the original license and I had the new card in about 5 days.

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    I just went to the local office. It took no more than 5 minutes (which surprised me since it is a government office!) and I got the card the following week. I'm always a little hesitant to mail important information like that.
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  • I was going to mail it all in but I didn't feel comfortable mailing some of those papers they ask for. Once I went in there it turns out they didn't need those anyway.
  • I didn't even know you could mail in, maybe you can't in my state?

     Either way, after my experience with the post office "misplacing" so many wedding related items I mailed (STDs, invites, RSVPs) I don't really trust mailing those sort of documents.

     I went in and it took 5 minutes.  Seriously, they called my number up to the counter before I had even finished filling out the application!

      

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  • I went in. It was very quick.. but I was really surprised! The lady ONLY looked at my marriage certificate... not my drivers license, or my SS card, what the heck? I could have been anyone trying to change my name to something else!
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  • I went in. It was very quick.. but I was really surprised! The lady ONLY looked at my marriage certificate... not my drivers license, or my SS card, what the heck? I could have been anyone trying to change my name to something else!
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    I went in. It was very quick.. but I was really surprised! The lady ONLY looked at my marriage certificate... not my drivers license, or my SS card, what the heck? I could have been anyone trying to change my name to something else!

     umm I had the same thought!  Why is it easier to change my name legally than it is it to change it at the DMV, bank, credit cards, etc.? 

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  • I went in and it was quick and painless. Like others I don't feel comfortable mailing important documents/ID.

    I had the same thought as the last few posts...to change my BCmedical card etc, they just looked at my marraige liscence (no photo ID at all), but to change my name on my library card I needed photo ID, marraige liscence, and a secondary piece of government ID....

  • I had a fairly easy time doing all of my stuff. I know Provincial Health Card and Passport are up next though, and in Saskatchewan it's quite the form I have to fill out complete with photocopy of my marriage certificate.

     My favorite was that i'm a Commissioner for Oaths for my Province, I work in a law office as an assistant, it basically means people can swear documents to be true in front of me. Fairly official/important thing... I called the office to find out what I needed to do to change my name on it.. and she goes.. "Uhm... just cross your name out on your certificate and print in what you're new name is, and we'll send you a new certificate" i'm thinking.. you don't want some proof of something? Really? Just cross it out? Some stuff is beyond easy.. some they seem to want your first born child...

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  • I mailed mine, it was back in under 2 weeks. 
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  • imagekushie77:
    I mailed mine, it was back in under 2 weeks. 

     

    What form of ID did you mail with it? I live in a huge city and I heard nightmares of SS office so Im trying to avoid ha! 

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  • I went in....it took 5 minutes! A lot easier than I thought it would be
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  • I heard horror stories about my local office so I mailed it in and had everything back in just over a week. It was nice and easy :)
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  • I went in to the office over a month ago, but my card hasn't come.  I called SSA and they said it was changed in the system, my card must have gotten lost in the mail.  So, now I need to go back in.  Ugh. 

    I didn't know about the mail-in option, but if I had, I would have taken that.  I was there an hour or two.

  • I went in because while I had no problem mailing my certified copy of the marriage license, there was no way I was going to be driving around without my driver's license. It took 3-5 mins. Just fill out the paperwork beforehand. 
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    imagekushie77:
    I mailed mine, it was back in under 2 weeks. 

     

    What form of ID did you mail with it? I live in a huge city and I heard nightmares of SS office so Im trying to avoid ha! 

    We live outside Denver, in Parker, and I went to the SS office in Littleton, I KNEW I didn't want to go to the one in downtown Denver  haha  the wait in Littleton was about 20-30 minutes.  Maybe there's an office in a suburb near the big city you live in?  It's worth looking into. 

  • Seriously... Littleton? Where is that one? I work down near Park Meadows and live up near Golden and have been trying to figure out what office to go to now that I theoretically have a few minutes. 

     

    I need to get it changed before my new ID card for my new office in the next couple of weeks. 

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    imagekushie77:
    I mailed mine, it was back in under 2 weeks. 

     

    What form of ID did you mail with it? I live in a huge city and I heard nightmares of SS office so Im trying to avoid ha! 

     

    The application which came with my marriage license and the marriage license itself.  The marriage license came back in under a week with a letter that it was processing and a few days later I had my new card.  

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  • I went into my local office, but it was a nightmare. I waited an hour and my name hadn't been called, so I left the application and marriage cert in an envelope in the drop box. About a week later, I got a letter in the mail saying my name has been changed, and another week later i revieved the card in the mail. I should have just mailed it in.
  • I also went in. A 20 minute wait and it was easily done in 5 minutes. I believe the DMV was longer. I too can't figure out why changing my name on my library card or on my car loan or banks took longer with more paperwork!

     Honestly though the one I hated the most was Paypal! I wish I was kidding but they want more information than either my car loan or my banks! I said screw that and just opened a new account. What crap.

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