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SOOOOO Confused!
My husband and I are married, but the first wedding was small and just us and our parents because we wanted to get married before he went over seas for his job. We were really content with the tiny wedding, but now we realize that we want a wedding with our families on our anniversary, March 24th, but we don't know if it's the right thing because I'm 12 weeks pregnant now and he starts his promotion in January. I really need advice on whether to have the wedding with our family this anniversary or wait until our next anniversary.
Re: SOOOOO Confused!
I would suggest waiting until you feel comfortable, ready and financially capable of doing it. If that is for your next anniversary, then great, if isn't until your next anniversary, then you could do it then.
Whatever you do, I would suggest taking the approach of doing a vowel renewal/celebration and not a wedding. This typically means that it is not as elaborate and people do not usually bring gifts. Since you chose to have a small ceremony the first time around, that is technically your wedding...the next one is a vowel renewal.
Baby Boy loved for 15 weeks, 5/31/11
Baby Girl loved for 16.5 weeks. 3/1/12
Well, you had your wedding already. You can't have another one unless you get divorced.
If you want a vow renewal, knock your socks off. But, I think a big celebratory party for your coming baby, husband home, and all that jazz would be far more appropriate at this point in your lives.