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Re: Would you be ok with this?
That's the best pre-Valentine gift he has given you! Take it, leave, a
That's the best pre-Valentine gift he has given you! Take it, leave, and don't go back! Your life isn't over, don't be silly..it's actually just beginning!
He's been doing nothing, but manipulating and disrespecting you. Stop blaming yourself, it is his fault and his alone. I don't know how some women/men can handle situations like this, especially when their is a child involved. This would be bad enough without a child involved, but a child involved makes it 100 times worse, IMO. I'm a very rational woman and I also believe that there can be a plantonic relationship with the opposite sex. However, going to an ex's home knowing she is saying the inappropriate things she has been saying and then taking pictures with your baby..I'm sorry but my foot would be up her a$$ and his! That is some major BS!
It's been a few days ladies, and I certainly appreciate all your advice. He has blamed everything on me, and has stated that things would never be the same if we stay together(which is not going to happen). He said he did everything for me, and I did this to him. It's very sad, I'm trying not to feel like I'm all to blame for this.
There are other issues we had, which is too late to really talk about.
Things are just bad between him and I..he said there is no fixing it.
http://www.northwestern.edu/womenscenter/issues-information/relationship-violence/warning-signs-abusive-person.html
Please read the above link. It is a list of warning signs of a person with an abusive personality. Your former FI hit on sevearl just from what you mentioned in your two posts, I have a feeling there are more.
Please know that you are saving yourself and your future children a lifetime of misery. I know it might not seem that way now, but it is true.
Please also look into some individual counseling for yourself. I had to go to grief counseling before and I know it was one of the healthiest decisions I ever made. Sometimes you really do need a professional third party to talk to and sort out your thoughts and feelings. A counselor could also give you advice on how to make better choices next time and how to end a bad relationship.
Please know there really are good men out there. I am married to one of them. One day you will look back at this moment and be very grateful it happened.