January 2012 Weddings
jjbmstinco
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Frisky Friday
I totally had a dream last night about masturbation and myself.
Re: Frisky Friday
ONLINE SHOPPING!
Also, I like toys.
I just had a dream that I was masterbating like 3 times with my vibrator. I was all by myself and just kept doing it. IDK what sparked me to do it cause J wasn't even in the picture.
I am in the market for a new toy. I don't like mine. Its too big and clunky.
RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its annoying.
Someday when I'm rich haha. I want one of those awesome ones that gyrate and spin dancing in a spectacular way haha
And everyone says wonders about these:
http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/luxury-vibrators/sp-lelo-insignia-soraya-pleasure-object-79192.aspx
Of course $199 haha
We have the handcuff too that are fabric.
And being a single mother is hard work...I wouldn't be in the mood either.
Of course! Ours is something like this:
http://www.adameve.com/sp-under-the-bed-restraint-system-11112.aspx
except the handcuffs have this extra bar that you can hold onto. That made no sense, but sometime I'll take a picture of them haha
That's funny as so as I clicked the link that was the one I just added to my cart. I'm glad it's getting positive reviews.
do you use them often? Or is it a lot of work?
They are basically permanently connected to the bed haha. Jared and I both love them. We use them often enough. Basically, it's a sign if either of us ask for them, we want rough, f*cking haha. I don't know. We love them. And the vibrating ring is great too. It's nice to change it up a bit. Helps us get into a different mindset
They are no work at all. Velcro, 10 seconds later, done! Strapped up and ready to go!
I will and we have given up on condoms. He's never happy with them. My fav is flogger and blind fold. It really heightens the senses and makes four play extra fun.
I am sure when everyone wakes up in the morning and reads this they are in for a little surprise.
I've never heard of those! We've just been trying various Trojan ones, like "bareskin", "ecstacy", "Ultra ribbed" etc etc. He is happy for a bit, then it's like he remembers he's been using the same kind of condom for a while and gets "restless" haha. Jared's not 100% happy with them, buuut until I'm in my last 6 months of grad school, I really don't want to "chance" it. Of course I know I'm paranoid since I am on the pill as well, but "pill babies" do happen. And although I would embrace one with open arms, I'd prefer not quite yet haha
And yes, those who read this at work in the morning better not click on links on their work computers!!! **DISCLAIMER** haha
I'm sorry I should have specified... For toys I like blindfolds and floggers. Condoms we use durex variety pack he likes ultra thin
It's been forever since a Frisky Friday thread!! Yay!!! and yes I will not click on these links while at work. But I'm loving all the information. Definitely interested in the handcuffs/restraints. I'm not sure how much Dh would be but it would be something new and fun to try.
For the last month I've been telling hubby I can't wait to not be pregnant so we can have rough sex again. I miss rough sex. And well I miss sex. Honestly the only enjoyment I get at all these days (while being pregnant) is direct clit stimulation. Poor DH. I guess maybe we should have gone toy shopping earlier in my pregnancy. It might have helped. But I guess we know for the next pregnancy.
What a wonderful way to start a Friday!!
J and I have a very large aresenal of things. Lets just say we tend to be very 50 shades. Well except I am the more dominant one. We both read all three books.
I haven't bought anything personally from adamandeve, but I know that it is a very trustworthy site. J and I also like edenfantasys.com and extremerestraints.com. Eden has a very nice one to one size ratio viewer, that allows you to put up a credit card and a ruler to compare sizes to their products. This is extremely helpful when serching online, because we have gotten things that we were not expecting to be that size.
Extreme is well, as the title puts it, extreme, and is really a true BD$M shop. However, they have some great stuff for beginners that is a really good quality.
One of my favorite toys though, it my eroscillator. It is kinda like a vibe, but it runs on a different mechanism. basically it runs on a side to side movement, instead of a vibration. it is a bit gentler, but stronger and quieter at the same time. The pros for it is that there are a bunch of different attachment options, it is quiet, you can use it a lot longer, it plugs into a wall instead of using batteries (and has a 15' cord or something like that. the cord has never been a problem.) The attachments are all silicone, which is more sanitary and can be boiled to clean them. Cons; it is expensive. I am not sure how much, I think you can get a basic package for $120. But is basically will last forever. I had gone through a bunch of other viebs, like 1 every 9 months before it would stop working. I have had this one for 2+ years. I wouldn't ever go back.