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O.k.... your baby isn't even born yet. By the time your child is really cognizant of the people in his/her life, who KNOWS if this guy will still be in the picture or not. Honestly, outside of h… (View Post)

I wouldn't get caught up in the "being fair/ being even" aspect of it, to be honest. Figure out what you and DH would truly enjoy. Would you really like to host a big party (but keep i… (View Post)

I agree with sillygirl. You don't sound 12, you sound hurt. Your mother sounds really emotionally manipulative. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I also agree- part of this is finding a… (View Post)

I think they are just being thoughtful. This doesn't seem gift grabby at all. I'd agree w silly- send a card. Don't give a gift. (View Post)

Well, clearly if you don't move, YOU'LL resent it and as you said- it might even lead to divorce. I get it that they are close, but really.... your DH feels he can't move even 5 or 10 … (View Post)