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It's not a matter of whether or not we "owe" our parents something, it's recognizing that someone who loves us greatly has some genuine concern, and so we are being considerate of… (View Post)

When I was young and dating, I was told "look at the way he treats his mother - it will be an indication of how he treats you." As a result, I always thought that a man who cares for and sp… (View Post)

I completely understand why you asked for their opinion, even though the decision will still be yours. If they are knowledgeable about repair work (electrical/appliances, etc.), then it makes sense t… (View Post)

I understand your hurt feelings over your mother's behavior over the years, but if you're going to be mad over something, don't let it be over money. She has the right to decide what s… (View Post)

@kahlyla Whaaaaaat?....That sounds awesome! That makes me want to go old school or church shopping. Thank you everyone, for your opinions and perspective! I really do appreciate it. About a week ago,… (View Post)